My husband (48M)shared naked photos and intimate videos of me(35f). I'm torn about how to proceed and need advice about whether to go to the police or not?
I'm a long time Reddit lurker but have never posted before, however I am stunned into indecision and really don't know what is right and wrong anymore or what is just me feeling hurt, so i am finally posting for help.
As the title says, my husband shared naked photos of me that I didn't consent to or even know were being taken. he had also filmed us in the bedroom, again against my knowledge and consent. he has shared this content online and in groups.
I am so embarrassed I want to crawl into a hole and hide. one half of me knows this is not my fault the other keeps saying it's not that bad. We have been married for more than a decade and have 2 children together, I am a SAHM.
I need your help because although I am going to divorce him I haven't told anyone why. he is telling people we've drifted apart. he wants to divide the house 50/50 and not give me anything else, I brought a large deposit for the house into the marriage. I don't want his relationship with the children to change and they are the most important people in all of this which is why I haven't told anyone. I have a couple of screenshots of what he did but I am sure he has deleted his accounts AND they had been active for years.
I am feeling lost, embarrassed, cheated out of our future and financially, and I'm really not sure what to do next. Help!