Want to believe my husband but I'm struggling
My husband and I just tested positive for Chlamydia after 4 years together. I found out first after going to my 8 week pregnancy appointment. And then he tested a few days later and was positive. The worst part is my gut is telling me he didn't cheat and this doesn't make sense.
1.) He is a stay at home dad and we have cameras all over the house. We have always been this way because of the kids and before kids because of the animals.
2.) When he isn't home like had to grocery shop etc. he is always on FaceTime with me just talking and asking about my day.
3.) We really are inseparable in our free time we spend time together and play video games etc. in our whole relationship we are barely apart.
4.) He never hides his phone he is very open with me with everything, we never had any trust issues before this.
5.) He is upset because he thinks I cheated and it's just been nonstop fighting because of this.
With all that being said something important to note that is making me doubt him is when I got pregnant the last time. I got a pap smear and a normal Chlamydia test and they were both negative.
I had complications my last pregnancy and I got pregnant again only 3 months postpartum. I don't see how he would have cheated because we always know what the other is doing so I am just confused.
I want to believe him and let it go but I'm really struggling here.