Being likeable
Hiya
Just wanted to see if anyone else feels like they are not likeable. One of my examples is when I was dating this guy from work and his best friend’s girlfriend was also working with us. She seemed to want to get to know me and talk and meet outside of work. But my insecure mind would tell me she only wants to do that because I was dating her bf’s best friend. I could not believe she actually liked me for me (at the time I was also new to the town so I pretty much had no friends) because she was soo funny and just confident everyone just liked her at work. And I never thought about myself to be funny person. I couldn’t make jokes…
It’s just one example but I often feel like my opinion doesn’t matter when there is a conversation in the office and I wanna join in and just add something no one really responds and I just feel pathetic.
I’m probably overthinking and I don’t think about it much in general but thought I’d see what’s everyone’s experience