please, need advice
Friends, I have read many people’s positive experiences of dealing with generalized anxiety disorder. I will try to briefly write about my own situation. I am writing about my biggest concern. Right now I really need support from other people.
In 2019 I had my first panic attack. For two or three years I was more or less functioning, I was going out, enjoying myself, even traveling outside the city. However, each year it was getting more difficult. I was taking medication.
In 2023 I had my most severe panic attack, just a few days before my child was born (I don’t know if it was due to the stress of responsibility or what). After that I continued living my life. The attacks and the underlying condition were more noticeable, but I still managed to function.
From the beginning of 2025 my condition started to worsen. Derealization became chronic. Obsessions, fears, heaviness—everything came together. Now, over the last six months, I have reached a catastrophic state: agoraphobia, fears, physical pain in organs, severe derealization, and feelings of “going crazy.”
Four months ago I started working with a psychotherapist. They tell me I need to work in a CBT direction and not avoid the sensations. However, for the past seven or eight months I have already been doing this. During very severe panic episodes I stayed, I did not run away, I kept functioning and speaking.
For the past two or three months I have been working even more consciously, but instead of improvement, the last four months have been the hardest period of my life. Everything is difficult. I still go out into the streets with extreme anxiety, derealization, and feelings of losing my mind, and I try to walk and function. But I feel like nothing has meaning anymore. I cannot see the point of life, and I feel like I cannot live like this anymore.
Medication did not help me, and CBT does not seem to be helping either. I feel like everything is developing independently inside me and I cannot control it.
I don’t know. Please tell me if I am doing something wrong, for those who have been through this. I am afraid that I might put my life at risk. Please do not share strongly negative experiences. need to hear positive outcomes from people who have gone through similar experiences.
Thank you for your attention.