F19 have a BF M20 for almost 8 months now and we have been having frequent arguments from time to time especially in my house. For context my Mom50 and I live together in an apartment house that is shared with 2 other families, we all have different spaces but still share some walls so sounds can travel easily. My mom has been away on vacation and since my bf practically lives here since he’s always sleeping here, he’s here with me while my mom is gone. We got in a fight at almost 3 am and when i told him to never sleep here again he rages and slams the door on the way out. It’s so loud that it woke the neighbours.
He’s done things like this before, he slams doors and he even throws my things when he’s mad or bangs on the walls of our house. One time when we were arguing and he was washing the dishes he got too careless and dropped one of the plates chipping it and i had to cover up for him when my mom noticed because those plates held significance to us. It has come ti the point that I’m actually scared because i love him too much to leave but at the same time is scared and tired.
He never shows this side to anyone else but he gets too angered sometimes that i even flinch away. Is this normal?
Ps. He’s also aware that i came from an abusive household before my parents separated and j have brought this up to him a couple of times now
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