u/Charming_Singer8352

Did it in a nice way at the end of the date (I knew I didn't fancy him right away, ironically my most fun/open conversations from Hinge dates are the ones where I know immediately I will never be romantic with them so I can just be myself with no pressure, realising I'm an attachment style nightmare).

Anyway, he assumed it was about his hair. It wasn't, he definitely looks significantly more weathered and older, though he claimed they were relatively recent pictures. He thanked me for being honest, I didn't push it, he's looking for something casual so I mainly met up with him in the hope he was as hot as his pictures so I was just a bit disappointed. You do NOT look like this anymore, I'm sorry!!

He said he doesn't have any trouble, so he won't take the advice. I said: okay.

Left after the first drink but neither of us travelled far and honestly it was a therapeutic hour or so for me and he said he enjoyed himself and that I'm interesting. I'm trying to be more honest in the hopes I can make the dating pool better for the next girl who comes across these guys, but clearly it won't make an iota of difference.

Going on holiday to china on Friday, so excited to have a reset I feel like my brain needs a wash from the world.

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u/Charming_Singer8352 — 25 days ago