[TM 16] how can I tell if I’m asexual?
So for some context, l'm in a relationship, that'll be sorta important in a bit. I can masturbate, but not for long (Usually not even a full minute and I just feel shit afterward. I barely do anyways. I found out how to when I was like 8 or something.
i cant finger myself, and even if the rare thing happens, I get turned on (like if I'm with my boyfriend) there is physically no way to pleasure me sexually. He tried to finger me today, we had been together for hours, I did everything everywhere told me to do, take your time, be relaxed, etc etc, but it just felt like he was touching it. No pleasure. It even hurt a little for a second.
1 never really wanted sex, sometimes I thought I did, sometimes | still do, I watch porn and all that, but I just don't know if it's gonna work for me.
I don't have the libido of any other teenager, or adult for that matter, but I also don't never get horny I think.