Feeling Exhausted in Partner Search
Have you ever felt completely exhausted while looking for a partner?
I’ve been trying to find a bride for the last two years, but things just haven’t worked out. Sometimes the kundlis don’t match, sometimes the date doesn’t go well, and sometimes the girl doesn’t want to settle in a tier-2 town. A lot of things have happened along the way, and honestly, I’m starting to lose interest in marriage altogether.
I feel drained by the whole process now. Even when a good prospect comes along, I don’t feel like talking to them. I keep thinking: why put in so much effort if, in the end, it may not work out? And even if things do get finalized, there’s still so much to arrange for the wedding itself. It sounds silly, but the amount of effort involved feels insane. These days, it seems like every girl wants a big fat wedding.
I’m 29M, and it feels like time is moving fast. Most of my friends are already settled, and I’m still struggling to find the right partner. Has anyone else gone through this feeling? At this point, I don’t even want to open Shaadi or Jeevansathi anymore, it just feels like too much work.
I’m tired of writing and listening the same crap again and again:
what I do, what I like, what I do in my free time, and all that. I just don’t know what’s going wrong.