u/Cheap-Breakfast1517

So I (30F) am currently dating (26M), who is married to (26F), and I was just made aware of a boundary that is now a thing, but wasn’t when we first started dating. Sorry if it’s TMI, but we’re not allowed to do anal of any sorts, playing or sexual. This is something new, and was only barred after a huge miscommunication happened that almost ruined the whole relationship came out. Which has been fixed.

Now there’s this. We can’t do that to each other, but mind you, she can do anal with other partners. Why has yet to be communicated to me.

Does anyone else have this kind of boundary? I don’t know if I’m just being dramatic or if this is a very clear boundary and is a now thing to bar. Any advice or knowledge is greatly appreciated!!