u/Cheap-Commission-640

Growing up in a Asian country, my mom would always compare me to other people my age: my friends, cousins, her friends' kids, etc. She would constantly compare every aspect of me to other people all the time.

Until one day I finally snapped and compared her to other moms, but I didn't stop there. I started to compare my family to other families as well. I said things like "How come we are so much poorer compared to X's family" or "Everyone in Y's family is so much nicer to each other compared to ours." My mom became quiet real fast after that.

However, now I feel kind of guilty for my actions. Should I apologize to her or should I just leave her alone?