I have proof that my friends bf is a bad person, and have personally experienced how bad he is. Do I sit her down and tell and show her everything?
I’m scared this post with will find its way to their Reddit pages, but here I go anyways.
My bf used to live with her bf, until her bf kicked my bf out for telling him to stop verbally abusing her. This man has already lied to her about something really bad…, he cheated on her, he continuously talked down to her, mocked her, etc.
I’ve had multiple negative experiences with this man, and so has my bf. It was a traumatic couple years living with his roommate. But he had no other choice. I’ve had undeniable proof of how terrible this man is for some time now.
As I her and I get closer as friends, I get more and more anxiety that she will marry him and dearly regret it. I feel like I should sit down with her and tell her everything that her bf did to not only my bf, but me, and countless others. Although I am scared that she will shut down, defend him, or get defensive towards me. I need to know if I’m doing the right thing. I see it as “informed consent” in a way. I wouldn’t want to marry a man who has done all the things that that man has, and would be grateful for someone coming and telling me who I’d really be marrying.
Should I, or should I not plan a sit down with her and tell and show her everything that her bf did.
Also side note: every time I think about her relationship, I get anxiety to the point that I can’t stop shaking, and also get anxiety shits. That’s how bad he is… that is how much this is affecting me.