Me (f18) and my friend (Molly, f18) got into a disagreement. Molly is still obsessed with her ex (m18, “Danish”) after only dating for two weeks. They broke up because he was getting close with another girl while they were together. Danish said he didn’t care about it which led to the breakup. he ended up dating that girl the day after they broke up.
Four months later, Molly constantly talks and posts about him to the point where it’s embarrassing. I told her multiple times to move on, but she ignored me. Recently, Danish got another new girlfriend (like his 10th since the breakup). Molly sent a picture of the girl to our group chat and started calling her ugly and saying she’s prettier.
That was my final straw, so I said, “Molly, you’re only saying that because you’re mad he’s with her and not you.” She didn’t take that well. I also told her that Danish treats her horribly and he’s a POS and she needs to stop embarrassing herself.
She started talking about me to other people, so I blocked her. Later, I texted her from a friend’s phone, and after school she messaged me on TikTok saying I was “cringey” for calling her rude. I explained I wasn’t trying to be malicious, just honest, but she said my tone was the issue and that I was rude on purpose.
I told her that when I said it nicely before, she ignored me, but now that I said it bluntly, she wants to make it a problem. I also pointed out that she once defended me when someone else was rude, and that I’m doing the same thing now because I don’t like seeing her get treated badly. I said I know she can stand up for herself, but she chooses not to when it comes to him, and it’s frustrating to watch.
Her response was: “Just because you lose me as a friend doesn’t mean you gain me as an enemy.”
After that, I told her to take accountability, but she didn’t. She also told me to stop “putting our business on blast” and to come to her directly—but when I did, she told me that she didn’t read any of the paragraphs that I sent to her. (Bitch) That made no sense to me. I got frustrated and told her off, and then she accused me of not caring about her feelings. AITA?