u/Cheap_Curve_834

My girlfriend was supposed to be going out for the day with a friend on Saturday. I’d planned to go to the cinema, have a look around town, maybe go for a quick drink then get some food and drinks to relax at home while gaming and catching up on tv.

My girlfriend’s friend cancelled and my girlfriend then asked what I wanted to do. I told her I’ve got plans and I’m looking forward to them. I mentioned she can join me if she wants but I’m not changing them.  She mentioned not being interested in the film I’m going to see but I pointed out I was interested in it and I’m still going to se it.

She suggested going to something else and I refused. She mentioned not wanting to go for a drink etc but I again told her I did want to so would be going.  She said I should be open to changing my plans but I just told her again she’s free to join me but my plans are staying the same.

AIO for keeping my plans?

When planning how I was going to propose to my partner I had an idea of what I wanted to do. It involved being quite artistic and creative which I am not so last month when my girlfriends family met up for a small get together, I asked her 17 year old cousin, who has just finished an art qualification if she'd help.

I've been with my girlfriend for 5 years so I've known her family for a while and her cousin has joined us on days out, meals out etc so we get on well.

She agreed to help and said she'd have the gift ready for the next family catch up. That was 3 weeks ago and I got her a little gift as a thank you which I gave her last weekend when my partner and I got her family together to tell them about the engagement. It was just a Nintendo switch game.

Some of the other family members said it was weird that I've bought something for the cousin and that I shouldn't have done it.

Even after explaining why they still said it was suspicious. I pointed out there’s nothing wrong with what I've done but they wouldn't back down on claiming I was wrong for doing it.

AIO for buying a thank you gift and not apologising for it?