Complicated situation
My wife and I have been together 10 years. I found out this Sunday that she has been messaging another man through Instagram for 2 months. Upon checking her phone I found messages to different guy that she has been with for a year. They have talked every day, video called while i was out and masturbated on video call. They have also met 4 times in person. Twice in a hotel and twice in a car. You can imagine what as been happening then.
The most complicated aspect of our separation is that we both work for and run a company owned by my father. My wife is invaluable to the company. If we publicly separate I'm 100% sure my father will ask her to leave the company. This will at worst ruin the business and a best put my old man through 6 months to a year of incredible stress. I do not want to do this to him.
We are currently still sharing our home and acting as normal at work but I'm not sure how long I can do that. I also feel like my wife is going to use our continuoued fake normality inorder to try and continue our relationship.
In sort I'm fucked with no clue how to proceed.