u/CheesecakeBoth3933

Hello everyone,

I’m wondering what makes someone be considered “annoying” or “difficult” during this process?

We had made a plan with our doctor, but we almost never get to see or speak with her directly. During monitoring scans, I sometimes feel like the doctors I see aren’t always following our original plan, and I end up having to politely push for it or contact my team so they can check with my doctor.

Sometimes I feel like if I don’t advocate for myself, our plan might not be followed but, at the same time, I worry that I’m being annoying or difficult.

Do you contact your team/doctor often? Do you ask questions during scans? Do you advocate for yourself, or do you mostly trust the process?

I’d really appreciate hearing others experiences.

Thank you 🤍

Hello everyone,

As the title says, has anyone ever cried at their IVF clinic and felt ashamed about it?

It’s the second time it’s happened to me and I feel like they probably think I’m crazy or dramatic. I’m not usually a crier, but I just couldn’t hold back my tears.

I guess I just need to feel less alone. Has this ever happened to you?

Thank you 🤍