29F. Single. Tired. Slightly delusional.
At this point, my dating life feels like I’m repeatedly interviewing for a role that has already been internally filled.
I genuinely want to meet other women or maybe men around 29-ish who are also single and trying to find a life partner but somehow keep ending up with: emotionally unavailable men, “not ready for commitment” men, men who “go with the flow” at the age of 33, men who think replying after 2 business days is “healthy communication”
Where are the women who are: healing, trying, tired of the apps, tired of explaining basic emotional intelligence and wondering if they should just marry their job, a golden retriever, and a coffee machine
I swear dating apps should add filters like:
\\- Wants commitment
\\- Has gone to therapy
\\- Can communicate without disappearing into the Himalayas
\\- Doesn’t think “wyd” is a personality trait
Sometimes I feel like everyone around me is either getting married, engaged, pregnant, or posting soft-launch relationship stories while I’m over here debating whether my Swiggy delivery guy smiled at me too long.
Anyway if you’re 28-32F, single, confused, trying to stay hopeful, and occasionally spiraling at 1 AM wondering if modern dating is a social experiment… hi. Let’s talk