u/CheetahConfident6977

My gf (30f) and I (34m) have been together for two and a half years and she wants to hold it while I go pee. She says shes never done this before and shes just curious what it feels like. I've always said no because 1) I feel like that's weird? And 2) I'm a little nervous she's going to try and spray me with it or something. Weird, I know.

She swears she has no intention of doing anything malicious, and genuinely just wants to know what it feels like, but I just have a hard time getting over it being weird?

Is this a normal/common thing in relationships and I'm just not seeing it? Should I let her try it just the once?