u/Chemical-Platypus647

So me and my partner have been together for a little over a month. We instantly clicked and started dating. It has been going well until they a really depressive episode that ended with a 50150 and a really bad run in wth their ex. They were still good after coming back from the psych ward but now after the run in with the ex they are withdrawn. For the first few days they only reached out when I made the first move. Later on they started reaching out but sometimes I feel like they are dry. I try really hard to continue the conversation but the usually end it my just liking my message. Can someone give me clarity?