u/Chewed-Up-Gum-84

Working from home and waiting for a meeting to start. So let’s do a quick ama. Ask me (almost) anything. 🙌

First time doing an AMA with my boyfriend. Most questions are fine even NSFW but we’ll let you know when we won’t answer something. We’re prepping for our weekend trip so let’s make this fun. 🙌✌️

Edit: if your question is directed specifically to one of us, please specify.

I am the youngest of 8 children. My dad is 67 and my mom 65. My other siblings are:

1. Sister, age 45. Married with 8 kids. (3 boys, 5 girls)
2. Twin brothers age 43, with 2 daughters and one son between them.
3. Sister, age 40 with one daughter. Married.
4. Brother, age 39 with

one son. Single.
5.

1. Brother, age 37 with

2 daughters. Single.

6.

1. Sister, age 34 with 2 daughters and one boy currently expecting. Engaged.

3. Me, age 24 no kids and currently dating.

Ask me (almost) anything! 🙌

After dinner my boyfriend and I did it in my room while my mom and dad watched tv and talked with my aunt downstairs my boyfriend doesn’t live with me. NSFW is fine but I won’t answer anything I think is too personal. Ask away. ✌️

In the car with my bf as he drives and takes me shopping. 🥰 ask me anything and NSFW is ok but I reserve the right to reserve to not answer anything too personal.

Planning for a trip next week. So let’s see what’s up. Ask me anything including NSFW but I won’t answer questions about measurements, race, religion or politics. I reserve the right to refuse to answer any question if I deem too personal or weird.

It’s almost bed time. What’s up everyone? Ask me (almost) anything. 😜✌️

I work remotely as a marketing team member and team lead for a marketing firm. Ask me (almost) anything. ✌️

Ask me (almost) anything.

What’s up?

No private DMs please.

Last week I posted about my boyfriend not wanting to stay at a hotel my family and I were planning to stay at next month for an upcoming trip for my cousins marine corp graduation.

I spoke to him about it (as many of you suggested) and he simply said he doesn’t want my dad wasting money on a hotel when it’s a two hour drive from our home area. Even if my dad said it was alright, my boyfriend says he’d rather just wake up earlier and drive down to my cousins marine corp graduation that day rather than pack a bag and have my family spend money on an extra room for he and I. He said I’m more than free to go there with my family as planned but I’m glad we cleared the air.

If I’m being honest, I’m still somewhat sad that he isn’t staying with us as the whole family had planned to spend the evening at dinner and exploring the local area so I thought this was a good opportunity to make some memories.

Don’t think there’s anything I should do at this point. But thank you all for your input.

My family is planning to visit my older cousins marine corp graduation In September and my dad is trying to book hotel rooms nearby for all of us. He’s offered to pay for it all and has booked around 6 rooms for now to cover my parents, my other siblings and their kids. My dad asked if I wanted him to book a room for my boyfriend and I.

But when I asked my boyfriend (we don’t live together), he said he wasn’t sure if he wanted to do that. This has my confused because I told him that my dad was paying but he says he’s not sure if he’s gonna go due to work and since it’s about a 2 hour drive, if anything, he’ll just driving up the morning of.

I admit, I’m sorta disappointed that he wouldn’t take this opportunity to spend time with me and my family. Not sure if he’s making up excuses or there’s something else going on. I don’t want to press him if there’s some other reason.

What should I do? Should I try to keep pressing him or just wait it out?