u/Chicknnoodlezoup

I want to preface this by saying I love my fiancés parents, but I already knew they had manipulating behaviors, using money as the biggest driving force. They had "gifted" us money to use. We have already had prior run ins over different wedding planning aspects but it really came to a head when we were asked to add 3 +1s to our guest list at just a month out. We had never met the people. We said no and gave a number of reasons why we couldn't do it, to which we have been met with insane gaslighting. We stood our ground on our decision of no, but I'm afraid this is all gonna blow up on wedding day. I really am trying to remember it's her son getting married too, but it's really draining the life out of me.