My crush has a secret kid
I met a guy at my job and we immediately got along really well. We exchanged numbers and socials. I even hung out with him a few times.
He has told all my coworkers how he likes me and wants to be my boyfriend. I was over the moon since I haven’t gotten much attention from guys.
He’s met all my siblings and became really close with my brother, but I’ve never gotten to meet his family. I’ve stalked his mom’s socials a lot and seen a bunch of posts of him and what I assumed to be his little brother. I thought it was so cute that they spent so much time together, but a few posts rubbed me the wrong way.
His mom had a happy father’s day post for him. I tried to brush it off as he’s a boy who’s like a father figure for his little brother. His mom even referred to the child as “my little guy” so I thought that was her kid. Until I went through a whole loop to find his ex gfs facebook, and realized the child in my crush’s mom’s posts match the one in his ex gf’s.
He literally has never posted anything about being a dad. I had to go through loopholes to figure this out. I feel sick. Not because he’s a dad, but because I fell for him over these last months and he never told me.
I’m not ready to be a bonus parent. I don’t even know how to confront him. Do I ghost him? Do I say I found out his secret? I don’t think i’ll ever trust a man again.