he keeps messaging me through my friend’s phone, what should I do?
F23. A month ago, I went to a friend's graduation party, and on the train to get there, I lost my bag (luckily, my wallet wasn't inside). Also, they accidentally shot me champagne outside the university, and I found myself soaked in it (AND WITHOUT ANY SPARE CLOTHES BECAUSE I'D LOST MY BAG).
After this series of unfortunate events, I met my friend's friends, who teased me for an hour about it. It didn't bother me too much because it made me laugh, and I'm a pretty self-deprecating person, so I didn't get angry.
However, every week since a month ago, one of the guys who teased me (Jack) asks my friend for her phone so he can send me a voice message and tease me AGAIN about what happened.
The scenario is this: he asks her on the phone, she gives it to him, he opens my chat and sends me a voice message mocking me. Four weeks have passed, and we spoke for an hour and a half one evening a month ago. Why does he keep this up?
Also, my friend told me that he told all their friends about MY unlucky day (even though he had nothing to do with it) and every time they meet (Jack and my friend) he asks her if I found my bag and that I should go back and look for it.
I don’t find it irritating, but it’s strange, because we are not friends and idk if he is “mocking me” with his friends
Why the hell does he keep this up?