u/ChopMariSa

Well, of course my first time having a mother in law she has to be a nightmare lol when she found out about me she told my bf how he’s bringing everything she hates into the family, how I act like a slut and that if this is really who he wants to have as the mother of his kids.

I gave her some grace and still decided to go and see her in a vacation they were having in my hometown (we live 2 hours away) from the get go she had an attitude with me even tho I was friendly and I even gave her gifts, she would make rude remarks like for example:

• I thought the food his dad made was delicious so I jokingly said that I want them to adopt me, she immediately said she loved the idea so I don’t get to be with my boyfriend.
• his sister was sad about a completely different issue that she doesn’t know about but I do, either way she decided to blame her sadness on me bc supposedly she was jealous my bf was spending more time with me than with them in the vacation.
• asked us what my shoe size was for water shoes for the water park while at Walmart and she brought everyone’s else’s shoes except mine conveniently.

Anyway, after the vacation it’s over she starts telling my bf how my mom supposedly kept pushing her about my bfs immigration status and that she thinks I want to use him for papers (mom and multiple witnesses confirmed this was a lie) and she kept telling him that he didn’t need to be with me bc of his savior complex (she knows I have family issues)

Now, to the crazy part, I told my mom about this and she sent her a message explaining that maybe there was a misunderstanding but that she didn’t care about papers and that I was completely fine, we don’t need them.

This crazy old hag decides to drive 2 hours and a half to Orlando in the middle of the night unannounced to confront me in my house and supposedly call me out bc I have been lying to her son about my family issues (I never lied) she refused to leave for 2 hours even tho my bf begged for her to leave, she just had a smirk on her face the whole time until my mom went to see her in the living room and then that’s when she started crying saying how she doesn’t like how I’m ruining her family.

Gang, what do I do? I feel like I’m dealing with a mentally unstable person here, my bf stands up for me every time, but it’s like this hoe it’s in love with him, can anyone talk to me so I feel less alone in all this?