u/ChubblieBoondiggles

Soo I ordered this dress in Plum and need to exchange sizes. Alas, the shop is sold out of my size in the color so my remaining options are:
• White ❌ (obvious no go)
• Black ❌ (outdoor ceremony and reception in summer)
• Steel blue (pics 1 and 2)
• Emerald (pic 3)
• Return (would like to avoid because the shop charges 15% for returns instead of exchanges)

My fiancé is the best man, so I am trying to avoid wearing the same color as the bridesmaids’ dresses (pic 4). I feel like both colors may be too close lol. I can also ask the bride what she thinks, but I want to avoid bugging her about it if they’re obviously too close.

I’m getting married in October, ceremony and reception are both indoors.

I’d love any suggestions for what kind of veils or hair accessories!

Also, I definitely want to add a bit of arm coverage. Should I do something like the right off-shoulder option in the second pic, or do gloves (lace? same material as the dress? how long?)? Or any other ideas, like lace toppers, boleros, shawls, etc? I feel like I see adding arm coverage is kind of a hot topic so sorry to be that girl but as a plus-sized woman I am very insecure about my arms so this is kind of a must 🙈

I’m thinking of doing a ballroom bustle, but if you think a different bustle would be a better fit then I am totally open to suggestions!

And finally, what style of necklace should I wear?

Thank you in advance!!!