Do I have vaginismus?
Before I actually make an appointment with my gynecologist for the first time, I just wanted to make sure I really have it and then get treatment.
So I’ve never had sex and I’ve never used a tampon. I’m aware that the muscles tighten when anything comes close to the vaginal hole, but (TMI) I masturbate just fine. Only with one finger tho, a second one won’t fit, or maybe I’m doing something wrong? It just feels like my hole doesn’t have enough room for a second one, is it because my hymen is still intact? I know that virgins being tighter is a myth, but I think it would be totally normal that I can’t penetrate with two fingers right? It doesn’t feel like my muscles contract when I try 2 fingers.
I’ve never used a tampon bc I just haven’t figured out how to wear one properly. I feel pads are super easy for usage and are quicker to handle. I’ve also never been to a gynecologist… I’ve never had any issues, I know it’s not that good of an idea..
Does anybody have vaginismus? Or is familiar with it? Only answer if you’re sure please or if my experience sounds like yours and if it’s normal or if it’s vaginismus. I’m not afraid of sex, I just wanna wait until marriage but before that, I wanna make sure everything is good.