Massage therapist went too far?
I (F) had my monthly hourly massage with my usual male RMT today but after my appointment i kind of feel violated. My rmt usually does the typical back and neck massage for me but today he did my chest (pec muscles) and what it felt like was further down my sternum and into my breast area. I didn’t tell him to stop because i was in such shock if he was actually going that low on my chest and was this really what i was feeling on my breasts. But after i was done i could feel that my breasts were moisturized with the oil and I realized i was actually groped.
This was the first time this RMT has done something like this before but i think the first red flag was when he started working on my upper chest muscle/pecs starting this year without my consent (which he used to never do prior to this year). I let him massage it because i do find my upper chest is tight since i go to the gym often. But he did not explicitly get consent for this. I feel pretty grossed out and i wont be going back to him and this clinic.