AIO for being upset at finding these messages in my bfs phone?
I (F18) searched my name in my bfs (19M) phone to send myself some pictures of an event we recently attended, and i found these messages. they’re from fairly early in the relationship but it hurts to him him talk about me this way. i haven’t seen anything more recent than early march, are they really that bad or am i being sensitive? i’m very big on communication and talking, i asked him to unfollow and remove certain posts on instagram of his ex because it made me uncomfortable and he seemed fine with it, instead of telling me he had an issue he went behind my back. im very good with discussion and if he had a problem and told me, it could have been resolved. the reason i asked him to do it in the first place is because they broke up fairly recently (2 months) before we started dating and i didn’t want her to “get the wrong idea” since it was still sort of fresh, it’s also just simply me as a person is uncomfortable with.