u/Classic-Fig2918

My partner keeps bringing up really big issues when I’m in little space and when I asked them to stop they said it’s easier to talk to me about it then because I’m less combative. I’m really tired of asking for them to be gentle with me when in this space idk how to ask nicer then I have. Any advice?🐾
Edit:
They don’t take the time to make sure I feel safe or anything after making us talk about it I forgot to add that