r/ageregression

so me and my gf have been together for almost a year now and she’s recently started becoming comfortable with being little around me. she’s starting to use bottles and teethers while cuddled up to me in bed but i notice there is still some hesitation, she’s embarrassed or shy. i may not have all the right reactions but i do truly accept the way she is i recognize this is a coping mechanism and compared to other coping mechanisms she utilizes i prefer this one so i am in full support of her age regressing. often times we will be laying in bed while shes being little and instead of taking it out or asking me to she will drop a hint about a pacifier. i know it’s a pacifier because of a conversation or two we’ve had and ive also seen it she describes exactly what it looks like and when i ask her if she’d like me to get it she always says no. i doubt she’s just talking about the pacifier because she’s making small talk i am under the impression she wants to use it and i don’t mind at all but it’s not obvious to her that i’m okay with it. how do i make my partner more comfortable to be her full little self infront of me? how do i become her caregiver and do it right?

Almost every age repressor I see, theyre an adult. I'm not. I'm not a kid, but I'm not an adult either. I have some medical trauma (kinda), so I tend to feel like a little kid again back around that time, such as craving the pediatric Wing of a hospital. I don't regress majorly, there's just times where I feel younger and kinda like a little kid again.

Also, almost every age regressor I see, tend to have pink stuff with angels, princesses, unicorns, etc. But I'm not like that at all, I'm very nostalgia oriented when it comes to age regression. Think early 2000s as a kid. I'm not saying there's anything wrong with the pink and cute aesthetic, I understand it and it is very cute. But I feel like I dont fit in to what a age regressor should be. I don't majorly age regressor, I don't have a "cute" aesthetic, I'm trauma oriented, etc. I feel so separated from the agere community because I feel like I dont fit in anywhere in it. :(​​​​​​​​​​​

im sowwy if its not allowed but im so sad not having anyone listen to me and asking where do i find a caring person who likes someone like me?

We met here, by accident.

We have been in a dynamic since March and had plans for me to travel to her soon.

Things were pretty serious, honestly, and as of Saturday night she has ghosted me. I'm crushed.

This is a new account but I feel like if she saw this she would know who I am.

I miss you baby.

Apologies in advance if this isn’t the right sub for this, but I’ve been kinda needing to vent.

My girlfriend is an age regressor, and i’ve been her caregiver for practically our entire relationship. In that time, I’ve changed a lot, for the better. I’ve quit a lot of bad habits, and I’ve replaced a lot of toxic friends. Overall, I’ve been doing very well, and my little girl agrees.

But, I can’t help but think about the past. I didn’t give her enough attention before; I made her feel alone and scared. I was always irritated. Not because of or at my little, but it hurt her. I made her feel like I didn’t want her.

We’ve talked a lot lately, and she’s forgiven me thoroughly. She says that I’m a lot nicer now, and that I give her all the attention and love she needs I just can’t help but feel like I failed. I always wanted her to feel loved, and I failed. I never wanted to hurt her, and I failed. Even though she’s forgiven me, I don’t know how to forgive myself.