Therapist said it’s good he relapsed?!
I’m not sure he was really in recovery, he had stopped using for like 2/3 months. He’s been speaking to a therapist (not sure she has the right experienced) I knew something was off recently so I asked to see his phone a few days ago. I see he had been using instagram girls again. He tried to deny it but eventually admitted. Obviously it was awful to find but what I have found hardest is the avoidance since, a brief apology for breaking trust and the odd how are you text. He spoke to his therapist today telling her how he didn’t tell me because he wanted to deal with it himself. Her reply was it was good, I get it could help to identify triggers but surely not to keep it from me and let’s face it he hadn’t stopped or even tried to. And he didn’t tell her on their previous chat. Not that it really matters as I have called an end to the relationship tonight, but it is all still driving me crazy how they can treat someone they love so badly.