Arguing every holiday.
My parents don’t argue at home often, and when they do my dad always starts it and then tries to blame my mum for his problems. But since my dad is selfish he likes to argue on holiday with my mum (likely over something minor) and ruin it for me and my mum. But this shit happens every fucking holiday abroad and i literally don’t know why. My dad literally wants Nazi control over mum and throws a hissy fit when my mum doesnt do something his way.
He’s most obviously a narcissist because he argues with my mum while she sleeps lmfao. it’s currently 2am and I’m in lanzarote, i can hear my mum and dad whispering and arguing as I’m writing this. The first time a bad argument happened on holiday was when my parents basically booked a shithole in a foreign country. (THEY BOTH AGREED ON THE PLACE.) My dad then tried to blame it on my mum. Then a couple nights later at a bar my dad was acting like a fucking idiot and screaming at the singers so we rightfully left out of embarrassment. So then when he got back at the hotel he started trying to guilt trip me and my mum.
“Leave me all alone like the miserable bastard you want me to be.” Something across the lines of that, i think i remember my mum trying to move to a different bed bjt my dad kept following her to continue the argument. then my mum pushed him away and…bro started saying he was assaulted by his own wife smh 🤦♂️.
TL;DR. dad is a narcissistic asshole who doesn’t care for people around him, even when the entire family is supposed to have a good time.