u/Clean_Plant_6235

Hello! I’m looking for some advice or input about being aro/ace and I’m wondering if that’s me.
For a while I (19F) thought I was bi and then lesbian and then bi again and then lesbian again.
But I’ve never dated anyone, never been on a date, never kissed anyone, and have no real desire to at the moment.
What’s conflicting me is I fantasize about relationships and what not, but the thought of actually being in one usually feels wrong/repulsive to me (same for sex, except this always feels repulsive to me, the idea of having sex with another person feels really gross).
Even though this seems pretty cut and dry, I still often feel conflicted and that something’s wrong with me.
Any advice/input is appreciated :)