Idk if this is where to go with this but i need advice or help or something
i’m an 18 year old living in southern california i got my ex girlfriend pregnant before i broke up with her and before i knew about it, she is adamant on keeping it and im scared to hell. i don’t have a job im right abt to get my license but at this time i dont. at this time she is 17 but by the time the baby is born she will be 18 im am trying to convince her to have an abortion because i think its still early enough to have one in california. she also is unemployed, no license, and might not graduate highschool. I am enrolled in college for the fall and idk if i will need to drop out and start working. my parents don’t know but i know if they do they’ll kill me. idk how child support works and idk how much ill have to pay
some side notes my family is better off than hers(idk if that effects anything) and her parents also don’t want her to have it but she really does want it
please let me know if there is a better spot to share all of this and if you have any advice