u/CoffeeandOreos

My boyfriend and I were on the topic of sex last night and I basically asked him why he’s so hesitant to be rough with me? And he said he’s afraid he’ll hurt me but would do it and other certain acts he finds “disgusting” with a “one night stand” or someone he wouldn’t cross paths with again. He’s not the only man I’ve heard this sentiment from actually, I’ve come across a lot of men who think that way, why is this?