u/Color-me-saphicly

I love both kingmaker and WoTR. For very different reasons. But one thing that I struggle to overcome more than anything is how necessary it is to deal with the mechanics introduced in act 2 of both games: kingdom management and Crusader management. I want to fix that.

It's difficult for me to explain, beyond feeling overwhelmed and feeling penalized harshly. For kingmaker specifically, It feels like Kingdom Management completely takes over and the TTRPG aspects through act 1 take a bit of a back seat.

I'm not even sure if that's true, but I definitely need help in understanding how to navigate this, because I want to experience the rest of the game. I strongly suspect that I'm just getting overwhelmed and frustrated and thats leading me to reach false conclusions.

What advice would you give to help make this easier for me? I think the only tip I really know right now is Lawful Good PC gives really good kingdom perks, so its highly recommend.

Anything I should avoid? Any must haves? Highly recommended tips? What makes this aspect easier?

Im worried that using the automation option (if Im understanding it right) locks you out of some really good options that you'd need to manually manage to get access to.

Hey everyone, I'm looking mostly for friends, although I'm open to more. I know I'm not everyone's cup of tea, I just ask that everyone is respectful about it.

I'm 33 years old and live in the med center. My wife and I practice polyamory and ethical nonmonogamy, and I am both intersex and trans, been transitioning for 10 years and I'm lucky enough to pass, even vocally. I'm also disabled and need to use mobility aids. I'm usually considered pretty nerdy: I love video games (not competitive), anime, cooking, and I make chainmail and jewelery, primarily sword earrings. I also love love love books, especially queer and fantasy books. And I'd love to get a group of queer women together to play tabletop like D&D/Pathfinder 1e. I don't mind if you're new or experienced.

I have 3 black cats that are all affectionate and social little monsters 💜

There have been a number of comments that have been reported for bigotry (transphobia) and the mod team still refuses to do anything about it. The comments are still up. The users are still allowed to be here, without any repercussions.

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By the rules of this subreddit Bigotry (and by extension transphobia) are not tolerated. The rules in this sub specify that trans women are women. And yet these comments that are denying that are left up. WHY?