u/Comfortable-Pool2334

I have two friends let’s call them Sarah and Tina, Sarah can make very inappropriate jokes, makes very rude comments, and causes a lot of drama. Tina just goes along with it and supports her. It got to a point where they kept talking about this one girl I had a conflict with but got over it and just didn’t want to hear the drama so..I stopped inviting them to stuff with my one friend, let’s call her Alissa, me and Alissa have gotten very close over the past year and have been hanging out more and she’s not much one for drama. So I started hanging out with Alissa to avoid the drama so the drama wouldn’t get worse. Sarah and Tina notice that me and Alissa have been distant and have just been hanging out together and feel left out (we didn’t know that they felt left out) until they team up in a group chat and start going off on me and my friend Alissa about how they make such an effort to invite us places (they don’t, they hangout all the time by themselves together, go out to the movies, the mall, out to eat…etc.) they then start going off about how my friend Alissa lied about going home for lunch (Alissa said she was going home to eat, I was just getting to school, went up to her asked if I could go with her she said yes. So it wasn’t a planned hangout) we explained that it wasn’t planned but they didn’t want to hear it. They got mad at me for wanting 1 on 1 time with my friend Alissa bc I wanted peace and quiet. They kept going on in the group chat so I just apologized saying how I’d invite them to the next things saying how I had no idea they felt that way and that it was a whole bunch of miscommunication. They have still been weird since the interaction and are often rude towards me and my friends, so I choose to not hangout with them as much still because they are treating me and my other friends this way when we have already apologized. So am I the asshole for not wanting to put up with their petty bullshit and manipulation?

I have this neighbour that likes to call the city on us about stupid little things like having metal/wood in front of our trailer that my dad uses for work, our neighbour claims it’s garbage to the city, the city comes by takes photos, we never hear from them again and don’t get a warning or fine. Today in the morning I was on my way to school and my car goes slightly over the curb by an inch or two due to my dads trucks being in the drive way so I have to get very close to my dads truck bed just to fit. I understand that I can’t park like that so I will be parking parallel so I don’t have him calling the city on me. But his approach was very rude especially because I’m a teenage girl, he came up onto my driveway yelling at me saying “HEY!! You know you can’t park over the curb right?!!” I rolled down my window and he proceeds to keep being very rude and says it’s a $150 fine so I just nod my head and say “okay I’ll let my parents know” and he leaves. He’s done stuff like this to muiltiple different people on our street and I’m sick of it.