u/Comfortable-Salad681

My husband left me last fall after a 30+ year relationship. I’m doing the things, gym, therapy, hobbies, etc and a lot of days I’m doing pretty well. I know intellectually that he’s not a good person and wasn’t the husband I deserved. But I get these waves of missing him so badly and wishing he’d come back. I know that would be an awful example to my kids and not in my best interest. What are you all doing to ride out these waves of sadness?