Hi everyone,
Enikk 20 years aanu. I’m currently studying + working, so life already kurachu busy phase-il aanu. Initially enikk marriage-il athra interest undayirunnilla. Pakshe, job ayi age ayi kazhinjappo veettil samsarichu “wedding-nu okay aano” enn chodichu. Busy life-il enikk ente ella karyangal share cheyyan oru partner venam enn thonni, so njan veettil okay paranju. Athinu sesham avar matrimony-il profile add cheythu, avide ninn aanu ee proposal vannath.
Angane oru profile vannu, enikkum okay thonni so we decided to connect. Pulli (27M) message ayachu, slowly samsarichu, then we decided to meet in person.
Meet cheythappo, pulli valare open-minded ayirunnu, njan kurachu opposite type aanu. But main issue enthayal, pullikk ente age valare problem ayi thonni. He kept repeating that I’m too young. Avante sister 21 aanu, so “sisterinte age pole ullorale wife ayi kanan pattilla” ennokke paranju.
Athu ann muthal njan confuse ayi.
Sherikkum 20 marriage-nu normal age alle?
Allenkil njan ippo thanne early aano?
Enikk ippo life build cheyyunna phase pole thonunnu, but at the same time oru partner venam enn thonniyath kond aanu njan okay paranjath.
So now I’m confused:
- 20 age-il marriage consider cheyyunnath normal aano?
- Or wait cheyyunnath aanu better?
- Also, if he already has doubt about my age, is that a problem?
Ningalude honest opinions venam