Tell me about life after uni
Hi there, to those who didn't come from well-to-do families would you be willing to give us a glimpse into your postgraduate experience ?
Hi there, to those who didn't come from well-to-do families would you be willing to give us a glimpse into your postgraduate experience ?
the last photo is the one I posted yesterday
So I made a post yesterday and shared my dissatisfaction with a comment that a person made about how my hair looked (in the last photo). I was offended because I genuinely love my coils so much and I didn't wanna use a comb (I know this reads a little childish 😂).
Anyways, I combed my hair today guys ! And I just wanted to show all of you what it looks like. 🤍🫶🏽
I absolutely love my hair. I use products that work for me and I haven't really been combing it for months now because I like my coils, I've resorted to finger detangling as it makes me feel more comfortable and there's less manipulation.
Today I sent somebody the first picture and I know my hair had some white substance in it that day because I had just conditioned. She said it looked dirty, I asked if it was because of the product and she said I should start combining my hair.
Would you guys say my hair looks messy from these photos ?
Greetings to you all,
I have been reflecting on a matter of concern regarding grooming standards in Zambian educational and professional environments, particularly how natural African hairstyles are perceived.
Zambia is a country that proudly emphasizes its cultural and historical heritage. However, there appears to be an ongoing tension between this cultural identity and the way appearance standards especially hair are interpreted in formal settings.
It is often observed that natural African hairstyles, such as afros on male students, are described as “untidy” or “unprofessional.” At the same time, other naturally occurring hair types or styles (for example, longer straight hair worn by some international students) do not appear to attract the same level of scrutiny. This raises questions about whether grooming standards are being applied consistently and fairly.
This issue leads me to reflect on whether some of the standards we use today are still influenced, even indirectly, by non-African ideals of professionalism. If so, it creates a situation where natural African features may be unintentionally framed as less suitable in formal environments within African institutions themselves.
This is particularly concerning because hair has historically been an important part of cultural identity across African societies. When natural styles are discouraged in professional or academic spaces, it may contribute to the perception that conformity to external standards is required in order to be seen as “presentable.”
I am not arguing against discipline or grooming standards in themselves, but rather questioning whether those standards are culturally neutral and applied equally across all groups.
I would be interested to hear other people’s perspectives on this especially whether you think this is a matter of consistency in policy, or something deeper in how professionalism is defined in our context.