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26M here. Never really dated anyone or been in a relationship.
I’m a skinny brown guy, pretty avg looking honestly. I’ve always tried to be respectful, kind and genuine with people. I don’t smoke, drink, cheat or play with people’s feelings. I try to listen, care and be there for others.
But sometimes it genuinely feels like none of that matters if you’re not attractive enough.
I’ve seen people who treat others badly still get attention, relationships and affection easily because they look good. Meanwhile when you’re avg or unattractive, even trying to date feels exhausting because people lose interest before even knowing you properly.
Not saying personality means nothing, but it feels like looks decide whether people even give you a chance to show your personality.
Maybe I’m overthinking idk. Just wanted to know if others feel this too.