I’m genuinely so hard to look at and I have a wall for a personality. I truly think a happy and an exciting life was never meant for me. I think I’m gonna be in the background like I always am, just always looking at people enjoying their lives while I die in envy.
I have a very weird face that if you look at it you simply won’t understand it. I have Lebanese parent. People usually say Lebanese people are good looking especially since it’s listed as top 10 countries with good looking people just because Lebanese women are attractive
I really feel this country brings a hormonal imbalance in all people and this imbalance favors women more in general.
I have the most feminine face as a man. I have thick beard and strong testosterone signs like body hair and fast metabolism and strong muscles. But i have recessed jaw. Very feminine looking eyes very long eyelashes. Pinkish lips that is really full, and most annoying one is my nose. It’s incredibly small for a man and upturned it looks very feminine to a level that is only complimented by girls when they want to compliment to be nice. And even tho i quite taller than the average (5’11.5). But my feet are small (size 9) and my hands are small. It’s look my genes are trying so hard to make me look feminine as much as possible
THE BIGGEST ONE: my forehead. I basically lack the upper third completely. My forehead is a straight vertical line from the side profile. Its more feminine than most females ever and i am serious. There is no brow ridge at all
My face looks really like a baby girl with beard. People never take me seriously and women think i am gay without me saying a single word and i am the most straight person ever lol
It’s so sad how even some of the mods here are actively mocking genuinely ugly people here… and basically trying to do what normies already do to us in real life
Makes you really wonder where tf you can even go to safely talk about this stuff
Even other “ugly” people hate ugly people
as an ugly woman, i just feel guilty when i have a preference in men. like i feel like i dont deserve to be picky? because its not like the guys im into would even pick me. especially when i just look at attractive men in general. i notice they always avoid making eye contact with me, and i just feel so horrible and disgusting when i realize i found them even the littlest bit of attractive.
When people say there’s someone for everyone, I don’t believe it. If this were true, people wouldn’t be nearly 35 or 45 and never have experienced love.
Actually spending $7500 dollars that I don't have to get my severe lazy eye corrected. I fully expect my dating life to do a complete 180 after I get home. I clearly have some social skill and mental health issues I will need to work on as well, but at least ill start getting one real Tinder match a week and then from there, everything is fully in my control. Wait time in Canada is in 6-18 months from now, and I'm just not waiting that long. It will be hard to accept the fact that the only reason I have been struggling so much to date is because of my delayed decision to get my eye fixed. Sure I may have other issues, but as far as dating goes, everything means nothing if I can't stop being ugly.
This was a while back because I ended up confronting this friend and she stopped doing it but I still feel so irritated even thinking about it
My friend kept making fun of how I looked despite knowing I was insecure but then when I brought up wanting plastic surgery she kept saying how she liked those features and that I shouldn’t change them but if you like them so much then why are you going out of your way to make fun of me ??
And then she’d later told me she didn’t understand why I found myself so ugly and that it made her feel uglier when I called myself ugly
I’m convinced people just tell you not to get surgery so they can keep you down
Normally, I don't care when I realize I have zero friends, but it always feels hurtful when someone asks you about your friends and you just have to either pretend to have some and lie about their name, personality, etc. or just tearfully tell them you don't have any.
I really want to know how’s yall experience with birthdays. Does people in your circle plan ahead before your birthday to surprise you? How many people know your birthday?
What about people who are close to you? Do they get you the gifts that is tailored to you because they know you very well? Does your friends book places to celebrate your birthday with you after you celebrate it with you family?
Notice I didn’t ask about ur partner because in 2026 dating is already hard even for average people so I won’t consider it here i am only asking about family and friends
I find myself very exceptional case; my family never ever celebrated my birthday. They did for my siblings sometimes but never for me. Same with my friends, they send me text messages yes on my birthday when i post story on social media that it’s my birthday. So since i was infant i have never experienced what birthday party in my whole life. I don’t feel insecure or sad about this because i already lack the experience entirely
If you are an ugly woman, forget foreplay. Forget the romance, the flowers, the man comming up behind you in the kitchen and slowly kissing you then taking you to bed, forget having your breasts caressed, role play, little games. At least from my experience. Expect a once per month session when you catch him horny enough that is mostly him doing his thing🤷🏻♀️. I fucking hate being ugly
Even here there’s a hierarchy in terms of the severity of ugliness and the life experience it grants you
There’s a spectrum even when it comes to being ugly
And because being ugly is already rare enough those of us who are on the extreme end of the scale to where our lives are almost damn near unlivable , we are consistently hated by people even when we show our best qualities and are nice, we’re barely able to socialize without severe push back to the point of being forcibly isolated , it feels even more isolating and invalidating when you have people HERE questioning the misery that is your life
It’s why even here I have almost NO empathy for those who have it easier or better than me because it’s like even the people HERE act like the normies irl who constantly torment and bully us
I see no point in interacting with or engaging with people here who don’t share the same experiences as you
It’s a different story if they’re trying to listen and understand where you’re coming from
But even here there are people so hateful and cruel to those of us who have it worse than them… when technically WE should be mad
And ima be so real how can anyone expect us to happily engage with people who have it easier than us and it’s like they’re constantly rubbing it in our faces ?
Its like they’re like “damn bro I don’t have it that bad just surgerymaxxx lol”
And if you’re truly ugly… that shit isn’t funny when you already feel helpless and are barely able to enjoy your life
I have such a strong growing resentment for even some of the people here
But for those of you who are genuinely suffering because of your appearance and grapple with it everyday and feel isolated and helpless because of it I truly feel for you and I get how much it hurts and unfair it is
It’s personally made me feel like I have no future because of it
But yeah I’m tired of pretending like I’m happy to interact with the people here who clearly have it better in ALOT of ways
Just saying
i guess the little friends i’ve had have decoded that im not worthy of their time ever since ive became uglier. i dont blame them honestly, i rlly am quite hideous. its just days like these i wish i could become beautiful for a day, wearing a birthday girl stash and everyone is wishing me a happy birthday and offering to do anything for me just because im pretty. im not trying to be attentipn seekimg but i did post abt my birthday on my instagram story with a face pic, and not even my online friends wished me anything. i guess ugly people dont deserve a happy borthday then. i just camt stop crying because this world is so mean to people like me.all im doing is existing. its crazy how u can even be too ugly for friends. i get not having a boyfriend, i dont deserve one, but for all my “friends” to just ignore me bevause they dont find me “attractive”??? is just sad. fuck this world. i hope we all die very soon
Honestly people are so mad and funny at the same time but I didn't expect this interaction, like what can I do if I'm ugly I know am very ugly, I just wanted to share my pic but nevermind lol
I’ve seen it numerous times from multiple people. Some of these people claim you’re not a “true” ugly if you’re fat, have acne, need braces etc. etc. That “true” ugliness is only correctable with surgery?
I think ugly is ugly… A girl can have a recessed jaw and look better than a girl with a non recessed jaw… I don’t think “true” ugliness is “just” the bones… what do you guys think? I think it doesn’t matter whether it can be fixed by softmaxxing or hardmaxxing or whether it can’t be fixed at all… ugly is ugly…
I read about research showing how empathy is directly linked to physical appearance: we tend to feel far more empathy and a stronger urge to help an attractive woman compared to an unattractive one. I am isolated and stay indoors but from what I have seen I know this is happening in real life all the time. Men, in particular, are often consumed by the well-being of the attractive women in their lives—whether a partner or a family member.
Often, they will blow a minor problem she has completely out of proportion and do anything to make her feel better. They’ll spend endless hours and days discussing her issues with unlimited patience instead of letting her handle them herself, and they react with profound sadness whenever she cries. Is this something you’ve noticed around you? Do you think empathy is really that tied to physical appearance?