u/BrightSpring12

I got a coworker who’s a chick from Indonesia and got a husband in Singapore(they’re both Indonesian though but she lived in Singapore before this). Brutal shit, I didn’t know she was even married cuz I know she’s slept with a couple of the guys from work, and is a party chick and goes out to party with her friends and shows others the pictures and the dudes she allegedly hooked up with.

She just casually dropped today in a meeting to a client that she is married and showed her desk photo of her husband and kid in Singapore.

Holy brutal. Her husband paid for her education and apparently works for the government over there. She is only here on a 1 year contract and will go back once it’s over. She’s gonna live up the year here I guess. She’s been here since June. Poor dude.

Afterwards some coworker asked about her husband and she said yeah she’s happily married and showed some photos of them back in Singapore and even some wedding pics. They all gathered around her, and were like “awww” etc. No mention of her cheating or anything. It’s like it didn’t even happen.

When I tried to make conversation with her a couple weeks ago because we were debugging some prod stuff together, I asked her how she’s finding America so far, and she said she likes it and “so much partying and hot guys here, how can a girl not like it”. I laughed and I didn’t care cuz yeah, I was under the assumption she was single.

Brutal world dude. I know she’s on the apps too, because she shows people the dudes on her apps to make jokes sometimes. She is 100% cheating on him, her own words. Unless they’re in some open relationship.

There was this girl when I was in freshman year who moved to europe and stayed in touch with her old friends. There was this guy who fancied her. Come by junior year, this guy slid into her dms after they were all chilling in a group chat like all of them who shared a homeroom in freshman year.

I guess they all told her that he fancied her or something since everyone knew that and they all got together and came up with this prank to tell him they were gonna make some tiktok and needed to create a dance compilation of everyone and so each person is gonna send their own little clip of themdancing.

This guy fell for it, recorded it and sent it. It got shared in all our class groups and stuff. Even junior high kids would come to our floor to see that guy. He became the laughing stock of the whole school. He got bullied mercilessly. The girl apparently already had a European bf or something.

He tried to standup for himself via chat he really tried to shame that group chat for pranking him and they all started clowning him even harder. He was also relatively short about 5'4 maybe and that was a key attack line. This thing got so popular that's how i came to hear about all that.

Man even the teachers had seen that dance thing he did which was apparently so cringe, even the gym teacher joked about it during one session he laughingly asked the guy to come up and dance. I lowkey felt bad for him but couldn't do anything about it. Luckily it kinda blew over people did forget about it in a few months but man it must have been rough for that guy.

I did hear from someone that he used to sit in back during class and sometimes just weep. It's just cruel dude. I can't imagine how anyone would find joy in this. I haven't seen the guy in years wherever he is, i hope he's doing okay now. Bullies suck man.

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