r/teenagers

I’m 15f and he’s 16m, we’ve been dating for 2 year. He’s usually a very kind, caring and considerate person, but yesterday when he came to my house, he kept touching my upper thigh. I asked him to stop after a while cos it was getting uncomfortable

I thought he’d just apologise because that was his usual self, but instead he ignored me and continued touching me. Later, he started asking me if I wanted to have sex with him, he had asked before but I said no because I wasn’t ready.

We also had a discussion about this and he decided to lay it off. But recently he’s been wanting it more, but I still wasn’t ready. But instead of just leaving me alone he started getting on top of me and just kept asking “please” over and over again. I was so scared and so uncomfortable, I tried shoving him off but he was basically literally sitting on me so I couldn’t get out of it.

He only got off when I started crying. He apologised afterwards but I don’t believe he actually meant it. He hugged me and I felt so scared in his arms.

I didn’t want to shove him away because recently he’s been so aggressive with his friends, I was scared that he’d also hit me. After he left, I kept crying.

I am so terrified of him now, I dread spending time with him again because of what he might do to me.

I feel like I should’ve let him do what he wanted, i am such a bad girlfriend for being like this. What should I do now?