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I like a guy who only talks to me sexually and never asks anything about me.

From the beginning, this guy I really like has mostly talked to me sexually. He never asks much about me or seems interested in getting to know me as a person. Recently, he told me, “Either you strip and spread those legs wide for me or go away.” I left, but I still like him.

I’m starting to think he doesn’t actually like me and only sees me sexually. Is there anything I can do to make him genuinely like me and become interested in me as a person, or am I holding on to something that just isn’t there?

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u/Maximum-Page3433 — 7 hours ago

Community Discussion :Has learning about the Black Pill destroyed your desire for romantic relationships?

Learning about the biological truth of human relationships, like the infalibility of factors out of your control (face, height, ethnicity), the transactional nature that underlies EVERYTHING, etc. has rendered me increasing disinterested in forming relationships.

I don't want a girlfriend anymore, much less a wife. I was never desired for who I originally was, and that broke me. Whether or not looksmaxxing will work out for me in the future, having to put thousands of dollars and hundreds of hours of work into becoming an acknowledged human being will result in apathy. The idea that someone loves you for who you truly are is the lube of romantic relationships.

The only desire I have left is purely sexual in nature. While I would prefer exclusivity, I don't see a difference between a prostitute and girls my age (18-22) anymore. In some ways, I even prefer the prostitute. At least they are upfront, have a basis of standards, and actually gain something from the sex apart from a primal sense of satisfaction of fucking a guy with ideal angles or whatever biological bullshit is behind chad being a chad.

So yeah, I'm kinda fucked up. But it was inevitable seeing that reality is just as fucked up too.

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u/PowerWillFreeMe — 5 hours ago

Perspective: her past doesn't matter

And remember, if you're uncomfortable with that you're just jealous, insecure, possessive and not a real man

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u/BoyNextDoor83 — 12 hours ago

Perspective …women are not the empathetic gender, nor do they even pretend to be anymore—they hate us with a passion

I asked a simple question in good faith, and they bit my head off. I was essentially told to “man up” and “grow a pair.” They couldn’t care less about us and our feelings, yet we’re expected to care abt when they are treated badly by the men THEY date? I’m done. This was more radicalizing and bping than any statistic or meme.

u/AayronOhal — 13 hours ago

Community discussion you now need to be somewhat relatively attractive just to even be an orbiter now.

The game has changed once again.

Now if you simply just want to be a male orbiter you have to meet certain attractiveness threshold just to be in her friendzone.

Being unattractive/below-average looking as a man means literally not existing as any part of a woman's life at all.

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u/LazyPotatoHead97 — 7 hours ago

Perspective : fucking hell

Worst mog ever

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u/Mysterious-Candy8615 — 13 hours ago
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Perspective Brutal fact is we are much more lonely in all of life than we think. Even in this sub there’s a hierarchy…….

Brutal fact is we are much more lonely in all of life than we think. Even in this sub, there is a hierarchy…..

The stats may say this and that, but if you go out enough, especially as Gen Z male, you’ll notice just how tall it seems literally everyone is. Idk man. Even in ethnic areas, or some ages older than you, it seems everyone is legit tall. Like 5”10 at very minimum and girls often 5”6ish.

I know yall could say, oh but the brain only notices the tall ones and how we are overthinking it ect, but let’s be very real here, even if it isn’t much self respect out loud. As part of human nature to not want to ever feel at the bottom, you’ll desperately look around to compare yourself and find someone who is your height or shorter, so as to not be and look as that one rock bottom man. In this case, your brain is actively looking for guys your height or shorter, not bypassing them. If you simply can’t find anyone around your height, then bad news, YOU are the smallest guy around and everyone else is looking at you to feel better about themselves…..

Adding to the facts about the stats lol, maybe Gen Z IS slightly shorter after all by like a few cm compared to Gen X and Older Millennials who are confirmed consistently tallest people. Terrible UPF diets, childhood obesity, unrestrained internet access, chronic stress, pollution, hyper competitive social life and cruelty that comes with it, is very likely the culprits for this very slight, almost negligible decrease in adult height. But again it’s very negligible and being under 5”10 as a young man is just not respectable height (not even counting our own absolute cursed heights). And who cares about older generations being taller or shorter or whatever, if you’re young, your competition and social and dating pool is other young people after all. Over when your height is so bad, some cringemaxxed 40 year old Andrew Tate ass wannabe who actually has the height you need, has a higher chance of bedding your age group or looks match.

Maybe the guys our heights are most likely shut ins and stay tf away from outside world unless they absolutely have to be and can you blame them? But if you do choose to go outside, your main social hubs (you can’t really use dating apps or online meet-ups, you simply don’t have the height or likely face/neurotypical stats to do so), are the usual place that only tall, handsome, well built young people would dare to constantly populate. Bars, nightclubs, sports clubs, friend group meet ups, even stuff that we already tend to go to like gym or therapy or whatever lmao still have such young privileged fuckers all over.

To add to this…. most of us just don’t even have solidarity in our life circumstances. All the stuff I mentioned, the general vibe isn’t exactly uncommon in young men today (even if they aren’t truly short or ugly), but they do have things that existentially we’ll never have. Idk man. I want to think so, so I feel less lonely and less “broken”, but apparently like less than 3% of men arrive at 30 virgins. In fact, most lose it by 25 if they are unlucky and when the modern media stats say stuff like 63% it means that’s how many are currently single, not necessarily virgin. These dudes apparently at least experienced teen love or something sexual experienced before they reached the early 20 lonely ages. You being KHH virgin at 24 or whatever and short and bullied and lonely, is in fact much more rare than you think.

When people think of a stereotypical messed up lonely loser Gen Z young man who’s at bottom of society, they picture some average height dude, whose surprisingly handsome and physically fit who had a few experiences throughout school and college and is just now having a “bad phase”. They can’t even picture our stats, and it seems even nature itself can’t, as evidenced by the stats on how extremely rare it is. Seems when nature thinks of surplus or loser men, it thinks of the same average height 6.5/10 dude who’s having a dry spell, as the media itself does. We are below even that it seems, we literally social mutations that shouldn’t have happened.

Not many people are us or have those stats. Insanely brutal how lonely and fucked up our situation is. Back in Covid, normis and those same people outside in such places today having times of their lives, were having absolute mental crises (rightfully?) form a mere few weeks or months without social life or sex or whatever, and the media fully validated them. Just to tell us to fix up and get over ourselves, when such conditions have been with us since conception effectively. Again, proves how existentially lonely we are. This IS NOT common nor standard for young men today, even if they objectively having and time. We’re entirely something else and much much rarer for the worse.

Tell me if I’m wrong……

u/ArtisticAcer — 17 hours ago
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Community discussion - woman openly admits she doesn’t like men who give her love and then says liking men feels like mental illness

u/Icy_Masterpiece_4414 — 15 hours ago

Perspective- Why do subs like BlatantMisogyny allow known predators like AdvocateDoogy and other dangerous people to hate on lonely men, I thought they’re about “women’s safety”

The guy was clearly accused of fondling a minor and the mods at r/blatantmisogyny have no issue with him slop posting and LARPing as a feminist. Femcels are quick to shout “check his hard drive” and, “you‘d date younger than x if you could”. Pfft

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u/RestQuirky5704 — 12 hours ago

Perspective: There's no point in chasing women

It's not a numbers game. It's not about confidence. It's not about money.

Lately I've been losing my mind because I'm starving for even the smallest amount of attention or affection from a woman.

Almost every friend I have regardless of age has had wives, girlfriends, hookups, friends with benefits, or at least some kind of romantic experience. Whenever I ask them, "How did you get your girlfriend?" the answer is always the same:

"It just happened, bro."
"Just put yourself out there."
"Don't think about it."
"Just cold approach."
"Just make more friends."

None of those answers have ever matched my reality.

The thing that really drives me insane is that many of these same friends barely put any effort into themselves. Some are alcoholics. Some use drugs. Some are unemployed. Some don't even take basic care of their hygiene. Yet relationships seem to come naturally to them.

Meanwhile, I've spent years trying to improve myself.

I go out almost every evening instead of hiding at home. Sometimes I meet friends, sometimes I walk alone. Last night I met up with a friend I hadn't seen in months. We went to an expensive café a place I normally wouldn't spend €20 on. It was packed with attractive women. They were laughing with friends, talking to guys, flirting, living normal lives.

I was just there.

The table next to us stayed empty, nobody acknowledged me, nobody showed the slightest bit of interest. I felt completely invisible.

I don't regret the money or the years I've invested in self-improvement. I regret believing that if I worked hard enough on myself, eventually someone would notice me. That effort would lead to something.

It never did.

The hardest part isn't even the rejection anymore. It's watching intimacy, dating, sex, relationships, and emotional connection happen so effortlessly for almost everyone else while feeling like I'm permanently locked out of that part of life because I can't get past the appearance barrier.

For someone like me, asking for affection feels like asking for the impossible.

I was rejected by several women just last week. Every rejection chips away at what's left of my self-worth. Every time I'm ignored or avoided, it reinforces the same message

That I'm unwanted.

That I'm invisible.

That I'm a worthless pile of garbage.

That no matter how much effort I put into becoming a better person, none of it matters if I can't pass the first impression.

At this point, I don't even know what I'm supposed to do anymore.

I even travelled several countries a few weeks ago and the outcome was always same.

I completely want to give up but I cannot turn off the desire to be loved, accepted and such since that's been my dream.

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u/StanicEnemY — 15 hours ago

Apparently “committing acts of violence” is the most “meaningful thing they can possibly do with their lives” wow interesting that that is a he most meaningful thing you can do with your lives? Maybe Elliott Rodger would disagree?? “Deep thinker “

Apparently “committing acts of violence” is the most “meaningful thing they can possibly do with their lives” shit; is this true?? Just wondering? Word up bird up fam why is that? Just my perspective >!why? Perspective?!<

u/Careful-Collar-1185 — 18 hours ago

Perspective: Woman gets chadfished on hinge and was surprised the guy she matched with wasn't as tall and cute like she thought

u/great-life-5777 — 14 hours ago

Perspective : married asian girl goes crazy over white foreigner

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u/Mysterious-Candy8615 — 16 hours ago