r/TwentiesIndiaLove

नसीब

नसीब

मैं मर जाऊँ, और तुझे मेरा जनाज़ा भी नसीब न हो, तू देर से पहुँचे और मेरे हिस्से की मिट्टी भी तेरे हाथों में न आए शायद तब समझ आए कि किसी को खोना सिर्फ़ उसके चले जाने का नाम नहीं होता।

मैंने तुझे इतना चाहा था कि तेरे बाद खुद को चाहना ही भूल गई। तूने बस मेरा हाथ छोड़ा था, मैंने अपनी पूरी दुनिया खो दी और तुझे शायद ख़बर भी नहीं हुई कि तेरे जाने के बाद मैं कितनी ख़ामोशी से टूटती रही।

अब अगर कभी मेरी याद आए, तो रो लेना मगर मुझे पुकारना मत। क्योंकि जिस लड़की ने ज़िंदगी भर तेरा इंतज़ार किया, वो शायद उस वक़्त तक इतनी दूर जा चुकी होगी कि तेरी आवाज़ भी उस तक नहीं पहुँच पाएगी।

u/SereneSidequest — 8 hours ago

Whats your kind of intimacy?

I have been craving just intellectual talk with someone who understands me ,that's my kind of intimacy that I enjoy, I was travelling Internationally when I accidentally got my seat along with someone so gorgeous I couldn't even think what to say , now I could see she was a little nervous as she was not able to sit next to her friend ,but mein thoda muphat huun😅 so I started joking around on all sorts of stuff and slowly she got more and more comfortable

It was a 6 hour flight from 1 am to 7 am and we TALKED all the way to landing ,not even kidding total strangers, now it has been some time since we talked as she was older than me by like 2 years(and I look older than my age) ,and we both understood that we lived too far apart(which can be taken as a excuse to comply with parting ways) but i am not sad by this i enjoyed every moment of those hours that went away so easily

We never dived into any weird stuff she talked about her friends ,I loveee yappers and she was just so enthusiastic telling me all this I couldn't do anything but smile , we asked each other our dating history and our ages and it was clear we both u derstood what was for the best

It has been a year since that interaction ,and I just wanted to give it a try anyone wanna talk or any girl yappers out there? I know this reddit can be really toxic but still...

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u/Pricerange_007 — 8 hours ago

Jidhar dekhta hoon, udhar tum hi tum ho… Na jaane kin khayalon mein gum ho. Koi meri aankhon se dekho toh samjhe tum mere kya ho :)

Some people are impossible to explain with words. Maybe if you could see them through my eyes you would understand why they mean so much to me :)

u/ChhotaSaHydra — 8 hours ago

21 F This is for my females. If you are a male you can skip it.Guys I found Penis and testes super ugly I feel like vomitting by seeing them on photos. Am I the only one?

I don't know how I am going to be okay with a man.I don't know how I am going to be okay with a man. And I don't understand how females all around in the world are completely okay with it.I am not disrespecting the men who are attached to it. But yeah this is what I think.I am completely straight woman.

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u/Mission_Tourist5470 — 10 hours ago

Emotional availabilty is bare minimummm, right??

Is it bare minimum and default or it is something to be explicitly asked?

Can this even be learned? I am not saying that one has to be emotionally available all the time and walk on egg shells or something, just when one explicitly needs that validation and assurance it's natural, right?

I know that one should not expect things like this externally but there will be times where it becomes imp too.

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u/Live_Imagination0527 — 10 hours ago

हार के बाद

मैं इस क़दर हार जाऊँगी,

कि तुम जीतकर भी पछताओगे।

मैं लड़ना छोड़ दूँगी,

तुम्हें मनाना छोड़ दूँगी,

हर बार की तरह इस बार भी

अपने हिस्से का प्यार

तुम्हारे आगे रखकर नहीं कहूँगी

“रुक जाओ।”

बस एक दिन

मैं चुप हो जाऊँगी।

और मेरी यही चुप्पी

तुम्हें उन सारी रातों की याद दिलाएगी

जिनमें मैं तुम्हें खोने के डर से जागती रही

और तुम बेख़बर सोते रहे।

तुम्हें लगेगा,

मैं हार गई।

हार जाऊँगी मैं

तुमसे नहीं,

तुम्हें पाने की उस आख़िरी उम्मीद से।

और तुम जीत जाओगे।

मगर फिर किसी शाम

जब कोई तुम्हारा नाम

उसी तरह प्यार से लेगा,

जैसे कभी मैं लिया करती थी,

तो तुम पलटकर देखोगे

और वहाँ मैं नहीं होऊँगी।

तब तुम्हें समझ आएगा,

कुछ लोग लौटकर नहीं आते।

कुछ रिश्ते टूटते नहीं,

बस एक दिन

उनमें से एक इंसान

थककर अपना दिल उठा लेता है।

मैं भी उठा लूँगी।

और उस दिन

तुम्हारी सबसे बड़ी जीत

तुम्हारा सबसे गहरा पछतावा होगी।

u/SereneSidequest — 18 hours ago
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The one sided sketch 😅

Isn't there always a girl in every boy's life whom he used to admire a lot 💖 and secretly liked her while she didn't have even the slightest of clue. Just those unspoken feelings and words, not of love but that desire to be near her, to stare at her throughout the day, to let her know how beautiful her smile is, how her eyes twinkle and how that makes his heart skip a beat 😍

u/Silly_Band4542 — 19 hours ago
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I'm 23M from CHD looking for F around my age

Just want to be friends first and connect with eachother and if you feel the vibe we can be more than friends and I'm 5'6 kind a all rounder like I'm more a listener could be a yapper too and learned guitar becoz of just a hobby, fit rough and tough into MMA and other stuff , propper green flag. So any F interested can dm me.

u/wolfi1564 — 23 hours ago
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What is your love language?

My love language is - I STAY!!

In the good times and even in the bad times! I may not say much, but I stay. Not for the sake of staying, but to give my shoulders, to give a safe space and a safe place to belong to.. 🙂‍↕️

Wby? 🤔

u/Buffalo_Independent — 1 day ago

You call it love . I call it devotion

Because love, sometimes, feels too simple a word for what I mean.It’s not just missing someone or wanting to be around them. It’s thinking about them when you have no reason to. It’s remembering the little things they probably don’t even remember telling you. It’s caring about how their day went, hoping they ate, wondering if they got home safe.

And honestly, sometimes it’s stupid. You give more than you should. You worry more than you need to. You stay soft even when it would be easier not to

That’s why I call it devotion.

Not because it’s perfect. Not because it never hurts. But because somewhere along the way, their happiness starts mattering to you in a way you can’t really explain.

You call it love.

I call it the quiet decision to care, over and over again.

u/SereneSidequest — 1 day ago

I can never love anyone..(pls read)

I can never love anyone..(pls read)

Since my last relationship it's been a lot of days where I was thinking about dating but eventually the modern dating standards are too out of my head that I really don't want to date anyone anymore and therefore I read deeper psychology of relationship and I find it's just a fantasy.. something so cringe deeply 😭😭

Though I am mainly sad about I had so many plans for the relationship, I mean I had planning of i will love someone so deeply as my father never loved my mom and as my friends are anti romantic as fuck.. I made nice psychique and money so my future partner feels good around me but now I feel bad how I will never date anyone

I was so good at the flirting, I had plans we will go on trips and hikes travel together if she gets tired I will carry her, I will write handwritten letters for her, be super romantic, gift her things, sing for her and make poetries par after psychology read it's clear all this things are so fake and no real emotions exists in people the love is the biggest propeganda ever so that's why at today I started focus to forget whatever I thought I will do for my girl

However at last love is all about pornography and social cinema culture so who cares...

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Wrote something for my boyfriend(was an ex for 10 years)

Just wrote something for my boyfriend and he was praising it so much. I was really happy that he liked it. I was waiting to share my story and today felt right. We were childhood sweethearts. He had a crush on me since our 7th grade and I used to like him too. We proposed to each other in our 9th grade and it went great till we were in our 11th grade. Then came the break. He broke up with me over a minor misunderstanding(we were young). I was waiting for him to contact me coz what he said when he broke up with me had completely broke my confidence. He didn’t reach out coz he didn’t know how to face me after what he did(he took 5 yrs to tell me this). Many things have changed in those 5 yrs and we couldn’t get back together. Fast forward to this july, after 10 long years after our breakup, we finally met in a senior’s wedding. I realised the moment I saw him how much I still love him. I gathered all my courage and confessed to him. Thank goodness, he reciprocated my feelings. He still had feelings for me. So, we finally got back together after 10 long years and I’m literally on cloud 9. It’s been a month and I’m the happiest ever since.

u/Remote-Night307 — 1 day ago
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Hoping this is last one

I am 22m, i have posted few time in this sub and have gotten few responses as well and i have relaised some thing the vibe isnt there idk if its because of pre forced label or anything. so i want to try something new i would like to list my qualties as friend and if you think that we would be good friends then to best friends...

I am very avid watcher anime, movies, book i love all of that if you are someone who enjoys watching anime, marvel dc main stream content i think we would most defintly vibe well. i might be a bit low talker at first, it takes time to open up and get comfortable so if you are someone with very good communication or yapper type personality it would be great plus,

I'm a hardcore old school romantic. I don't really know how to describe myself, but if there's one thing I'm sure about, it's that I love deeply. I'm the kind of guy people would probably call clingy, but for me, it's just loving someone with my whole heart.I've never liked casual relationships. I've always wanted one person. One love. Someone to build a life with.

I'm not perfect, and I don't know everything. But if there's something that matters to you, teach me. I'll happily learn. I'd rather improve myself than make the person I love feel unheard or unhappy.

I don't have every luxury in life right now. I'm still building my career and trying to become the kind of man I want to be. But whatever I have today, and whatever I achieve tomorrow, I'd want to share it with the right person. I want to be your safe place.

On your worst days, I want you to know you can come to me without thinking twice. You don't have to pretend to be okay around me. Cry if you need to. Complain about your day. Stay silent if you don't feel like talking. I'll still be there.

I want to celebrate your smallest achievements like they're my own and hold your hand through your biggest fears. I'm the kind of person who remembers little things. Your favorite chocolate. How you like your tea or coffee. The random story you told me weeks ago. The song that reminds you of home. I notice those things because that's how I love.

I don't dream about luxury dates or expensive gifts. I'd rather cook together, go on late-night walks, watch sunsets, send each other random reels, make playlists, have endless phone calls, laugh over silly things, and slowly build a love that feels like home.

I want the kind of relationship where we're still excited to tell each other about our day even after years. I think long distances are truest form of love. it shows patience and love for each other.

what do i expect from you- loyalty please, caring and understanding a bit, bit emotionally available, i hope you are yapper typa person or even if you are not just being able to put same efforts would be nice, i hope you can flirt i am zero in that department. thats all

if any of the points above resonates with you

u/eagerwolverine21 — 1 day ago

I'm confused as hell😭😭😭

I had a breakup 4 months ago and since that day my female bestie was the one helping me to cope up with all my mess and all of a sudden she is acting weird. She stopped talking to me, barely texts me, no reels, no follow up messages, if I ask something I get one word answers idk what the hell is going on. I tried asking her if something was wrong, if she's tensed Abt something but no she is not opening up i thought it would be there for short term but it's too long and I'm stressed if something is wrong.

Help me guysww, what do you think I should do?????...??????

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