u/Pricerange_007

I have been craving just intellectual talk with someone who understands me ,that's my kind of intimacy that I enjoy, I was travelling Internationally when I accidentally got my seat along with someone so gorgeous I couldn't even think what to say , now I could see she was a little nervous as she was not able to sit next to her friend ,but mein thoda muphat huun😅 so I started joking around on all sorts of stuff and slowly she got more and more comfortable

It was a 6 hour flight from 1 am to 7 am and we TALKED all the way to landing ,not even kidding total strangers, now it has been some time since we talked as she was older than me by like 2 years(and I look older than my age) ,and we both understood that we lived too far apart(which can be taken as a excuse to comply with parting ways) but i am not sad by this i enjoyed every moment of those hours that went away so easily

We never dived into any weird stuff she talked about her friends ,I loveee yappers and she was just so enthusiastic telling me all this I couldn't do anything but smile , we asked each other our dating history and our ages and it was clear we both u derstood what was for the best

It has been a year since that interaction ,and I just wanted to give it a try anyone wanna talk or any girl yappers out there? I know this reddit can be really toxic but still...

Recently I tried buying dumbells but they are so expensive in samarkand is there any place I can buy them for cheap, they are ten times the price of India and it is just weighted metal I dont get

Recently I have come to realize that whichever girl i meet to online about 20 to 30 percent chance i end up fighting with her and i mean like full blown fights where it goes to full blown insults , obv i make sure to not abuse or anything from my side , now pls listen to my story tho

I used to be in a relation with a girl who had suffered sexual trauma from a family member in her past she was so lovely we gelled together really good and honestly at that time I was kind of a jubily guy just as happy as her, we had to seperate due to distance issues mainly but since then maybe it's just me but I have encountered some mean girls

(I hope I am not boring anybody)

I encountered some himachal girls ,one girl kind of liked me(they were in my class) and gave me hints while I was with my ex and she took a photo of us spending some time together and sent to me as a joke, now my ex was a senior of the himachal girl in her hostel and confronted her about it but didnt tell me, at that point we were not in a relation so when people started calling me on her(himachal) behalf I trashed them but still I wasn't really good at trash talking especially with a girl , people generally avoid encountering with me due to the place I am from and my stature( not bragging genuinely ) but that led me to not be so cunning on comebacks nd stuff , she ganged on the phone with like 5 or 6 of her friends and asked me to be and say sorry ,obv why do I say sorry if u take our photo without consent even it is for a prank or a joke and I wasn't even offended it i was fine with it as she was somewhat a friend at that time but then they started gaslighting me and said say sorry on my ex's behalf I shut all of them up by telling them off ,but then in class the girl started to say insults to me as she knew I wouldn't say much things back , and then she abused me

Now I made sure thru the whole hour of argument to not curse a single girl or even in general as a sign of respect and decency I genuinely BURST hearing her and went on to abuse her for 5 minutes made fun of her in the class and the other girls started laughing , it was a breaking point for me I felt so relieved and I thought I would feel sorry but I felt such a strong sense for justice that now I felt good after she got what she deserved

But the other himachali girl who actually took the photo but wasn't the one who sent it to me didnt get to hear all this from me and from then till after our breakup she(himachali) continues to be disrespectful many times again and again, and always when I try to be friendly and am vulnerable ,I hate it but can't do anything as she will bake a story and go to the dean he is her cha-cha or something, what can I do? I have stopped speaking entirely In the class due to her and some other reasons and just wanted to ask like can she be the reason I am becoming like this cuz I knoww I am not this kind of a person and I love someone who cares about my opinions and words and honestly I just want someone who gets me to talk to her allll day long I still miss having long convos

Like the main question I wanted to ask was, is this shit really changing me cuz I start of always as being nice to girls but when they start replying but only for the sake of attention and demands me to be begging and stuff even if its in a joking way ,I loose my temper and lead to fights , I get offended by such stuff as someone should know the line between a joke and a disrespect but these girls I have encountered dont and need to understand this stuff and sometimes need to be shown a mirror but I dont want to become someone who fights with them so much tooo am I becoming toxic🫠😭 , pls help

Basically I wanna ask am I also becoming toxic and was there a way to avoid this or this was unavoidable and I want a woman perspective on any way to change this...

Guys I am flying with centrum air from tashkent to delhi and the ticket says 1 checkin bag(1 pc) and 1 carry on bag

So what is the wight limit for this checkin bag I cannot find it anywhere , is it 23 or 32kg?