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Really fast changes on testosterone

Throw away cause semi stealth and plan to fully be stealth in college

I started testosterone last Friday it is currently Wednesday so Day 5 using how the doctor told me to count

Day one I started being completely hungry and it’s felt different where I feel like I always have a sort of hunger signal even when my stomachs full , also weird sensations in genitals can equate to bottom growth
Day two same
Day three started being really hot and gross sweaty oily and started sleeping super deep and getting tired earlier - assuming my body just needing more rest because of the behind the scenes work it’s doing
Day four I felt dry and oily at the same time along with previous stuff
Day five today is where it gets weird , I’ve been in lots of musicals and like to sing in my car this morning I was singing and my upper register felt different and difficult I sung a tenor opt up I sung in a musical in March and couldn’t sustain it- chalked it up to placebo or it being early. At school when talking I felt like my voice would shift to a lower part I wasn’t used to then go back so when I got home I tested my range my lowest note 3 days ago and what it has been all year d3# in a straining way but I easily hit a b2 and could feel a physical difference on singing. I know this is very very early and my voice probably won’t drop but just my range changing is very crazy to me it being day five only

I know t is different for everyone and was wondering if anyone had a similar timeline of changes this early and if so what did the rest of their timeline look like specifically in the next few months what could I reasonably expect especially with physical changes voice facial hair ect

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How cooked am I? 19, pre-t.

Terrified my face looks way too feminine, started going to the gym multiple times a week, focusing on building my neck shoulders and arms but no progress yet since it’s only been a short time. Any tips on how to look more masculine? Cutting my hair shorter in the back tends to make me look like a lesbian so I’m not sure what haircut to get. Will delete eventually since I hate my face being online.

u/New-Temperature4248 — 1 day ago

hair and glasses recommendations?

  1. a year and some change on t. i want to switch up my hair and get new glasses, but don’t want anything that might make me look younger and/or feminine. any recommendations appreciated!
u/traankill — 1 day ago

Which hairstyles do I look most masculine with?

Pre t, sorry for the dirty mirror. Weirdly I feel like longer hair helps me pass better and hide the soft features but I feel insane and keep cutting it short. The last one is the hair I have rn and I feel like it only made me more feminine than the long wolf cut. I had a buzz cut at some point but I felt the most feminine and dysphoric with that. I felt best with curly hair but having to curl it every single day and it being straight again by the end of the day was hard on me, and I didn't even know if it actually helped. All I can see in the mirror is a girl no matter what. I cut my hair at home, I can't go to a barber and get a traditionally masc haircut or go on t because I can't safely be out to my parents who I have to rely on due to autism

u/energydrinkguzzler — 1 day ago
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How bad are my soft features?

Hello, pre t 20y here. I am generally satisfied with the way I dress but my biggest clocks are undoubtedly my voice, mannerisms, attraction to other males, and face. Any quick facial changes I could make to appear more male? Last photo(car) was one I just snapped “candidly”

How do I read?

Throwaway, on the off chance of someone I know IRL seeing this.

I'm 26 years old. Been socially transitioned for over a decade. HRT for 1.5 years with no problems, I get my labs done every 6 months and my levels are fine. I'm non-disclosing, and could probably count on one hand the number of times I've been misgendered in the last 6-8 months, it happens extremely rarely, but I think it's due to having very deep, cis-passing voice, because I feel like my face hasn't masculine at all? I'm regularly mistaken for being 18-20 year old.

Please care more about my transition/safety than my feelings! The main reason I'm asking is because I'm starting to get very anxious about public washrooms.

Taken a few days ago. (Edit: I don't post on Reddit very often, even on my main, so I wasn't sure the right way to add pictures. Let me know if I screwed it up.)

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u/throwaway20260517 — 1 day ago

What short haircut would make me more masculine? 16 preT

I only have long hair because my family forces me to T□T, but now that my parents will be away for a while I have time to go to a hairstylist or barber, or you can suggest a haircut that I could easily DIY.

(It's a lot curlier when short)

u/RudyPudyIDK — 1 day ago

Stealth + Passing in College

19, little over a year on T for reference ! i just did my first year of college and was able to stay stealth for a good amount of the school year till my roommate snooped and found my T along with a friend who I knew a few years outing me as well so I’m looking for advice to maybe go stealth or pass better. also planning to maybe get a week job as well and any tips for how to stay stealth there would be appreciated. also 5’3 for reference and all pictures are fairly new

u/asphenn — 2 days ago
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Pre-T Passing?

25 ftm and desperately trying to find ways to pass more. I started using They/Them Pronouns at my new job where no one knows me, and started using my preferred name, but I desperately want to pass more so I can comfortably use he/they pronouns until I start T. Based on looking at me, what can I do to pass better before starting T?

Context: I bind/tape daily, wear a packer, and try to lower my tone of voice as much as possible without sounding too forced, but I feel like I just read female.

u/randomfknquestions — 2 days ago

Binders for flatter chests??

Does anyone else have a chest that still makes them insecure but are flat enough to where binders sometimes make them look larger? This is my issue. I just don't want to add any bulk to it. I'm like 32 inches around. They are still visibly two hunks of meat with a shirt on. Sports bras make me feel like a girl and not flat enough.

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u/SitcomSuperfan — 2 days ago

What can i do to pass better? (16M)

Tbh i think i look quite okay, and my voice isnt THAT fem, but i still get misgendered often, dont really understand why

u/PsychologicalMove743 — 4 days ago

Are there any piercings that are more common with men

I like piercings, and it’s not like I can pass anyway because I live with my unaffirming and rude family, but I feel like id enjoy having a “masculine” piercing. Idk what ones men have though. I knew a really great guy with a tongue piercing, but don’t want to flat out copy him lol

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u/NoEscape2500 — 4 days ago

Piercing curiosity?

Hey folks, I am a trans intersex guy who's been on T for 8 years now. I have a pretty good amount of bottom growth (2.5") and am planning to get metoidioplasty with UL and keeping the v-hole. However surgery is probably a couple years away due to transportation issues mostly. In the meantime I am curious about getting a dick piercing. I have heard that this may or may not affect results, most likely not, so that's not too much of a concern. I'm mostly curious if anyone else has gotten one and their satisfaction with it. If I do get one, it would be a little ring in my foreskin sort of at the tip. Do any of y'all have piercings down there and has it benefited your dysphoria at all? Also is there somewhere in particular I can find pictures online so I can kinda get a better idea of how it will look? Thanks in advance ;)

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u/doctor0wl — 4 days ago
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Moobs or just boobs?

Censored my school but ig if you wanted to hard enough you could find it (it has like 2,000 kids so won’t help much)
Weird long sleeve fit is cause I’m wearing it under a uniform and it’s raining also hair funky cause it’s wet
Not getting rid of the piercings they were expensive

u/ExcitementSecure3470 — 5 days ago

Pre T vs 3 Months on T. Do I pass better now? (23 y/o) Some days I feel like nothing has changed at all. I think my face looks a bit different but I can't tell what has changed.

u/_Adrian_N — 6 days ago