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Pata hai aaj kya hua, me and my flatmate were having some drinks in my room. Suddenly he got a call from his gf that she is outside the flat. Then my friend got up and opened the door and she also joined us. We are quite close as she frequently stay at our flat.
We continued drinking and were talking about life and my friend jokingly said to his gf that why is your tummy coming out? Are you pregnant?
And upon which she said yes. We all laughed we thought she is also joking.
But she wasn’t laughing and she clarified that she was serious and she is really pregnant.
Upon which my friend got loud and asked “whoes child is this? ” she said “mine”
My friend was getting irritated now and he asked “arre pagal aurat whom did you fucked with? We haven’t any sex in last few months? So this is obviously not mine? And you are informing all this so normally”

Upon this his gf replied- why do i need to fuck anyone for a child, its a result of self love

After listening even I started getting irritated, she was literally gaslighting at peak.
Then they both started fighting and his gf left after saying that my friend isn’t supportive and doesn’t understand anything about love.

Now me and my friend discussed all this and were drinking, he even cried as he was serious about his relationship. He has even told about this girl to his parents, as they were planning to get married. Now he is locked inside his room from last 2 hours, on call with his gf.
Don’t know how they will short this out 🙄

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As if I used to not wonder how people are getting into relationships and all

I am seeing a lot of pregnancy Stories on this sub which makes me wonder if people are unaware of contraceptive methods including condoms and all.

Why do you guys do this ? Are you unaware of consequences that unwanted pregnancy can bring to you and your partner?

This post of mine is more of a concern than a rant ,

Please take care and have protected sex while progressing your career.

And as this sub requires 125 words to post I am adding this just to fulfill that requirement.

Take care ✨✨

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I felt unwanted. Felt like i was pushing through it alone. I have no doubts saying that he too loved me.
But he also told me that his friend told him saheli ke chakaro mai pdhkr exam nahi crack hota. Which he later labelled as a joke. But it stuck with me. All the times he broke up with me over the tiniest of things. Although he would always find his way back to me but i felt unwanted. He deleted the only comment he ever did on my post just because our friends teased him about it. I know it was just a comment but it was like his first PDA for me. I used to look at it and just smile,but he deleted it. I know this sounds very childish and maybe it is but i feel like i just lost 5 years of my life. I was a child when i fell in love with him. And the worst part when he talked about leaving i begged him to stay but when i talked about leaving he said nothing.
If we have got through 5 years it means there were thousands of fights, alot of forgive and forget but now it all seems pointless. I never asked for physical intimacy ever. But he couldn’t even hold my hands… i just am broken because when i asked him for holding hands and all these things he just said MAI ESA HE HU.
And please no one tell me that if he didn’t hold hands he didn’t love me because i know for a fact he did. He was just the most shy guyz

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Well it’s from Tuesday but yeah. So I met this girl last year (on Instagram, we knew each other pehle but then we both grew in age and forgot each other and she randomly followed me from her main and spam accounts) and we became close pretty fast because we had many common things. We used to flirt with each other too, like if I overthink smth she would say “don’t overthink. Overthink about your cuteness” and well she’s 3 years older than me so she also said “ughh, I wish we were the same age.” And I said ki “yeah. But we can’t do anything” and recently I just told her ki I had feelings for her and she replied by saying “You are too young for me man.” And honestly that was a heart break.

Then I started overthinking that I had ruined our friendship and I asked her that and she said that it didn’t affect our friendship. Then the next day I messaged her but she didn’t reply to my messages so I called her that day and she picked it up half asleep and listened to me talk and then said “don’t overthink. And you do not have to say sorry.” And I said ok thankss and I cut the call. But I still regret the decision of telling this to her. And I’ve messaged her that I regret doing it and hopefully we are still best friends and I also told that I am sorry for this mess that I created. She didn’t wake up now but I hope that when she wakes up she messages me back.

I just posted this here to just hopefully remove the regret.

In continuation to my first post-https://www.reddit.com/r/PataHaiAajKyaHua/s/KeyrkMEtaY

So i told her i'm kinda tight with money these days and could not afford to do fancy things for her but i'm into her. She took it really well and comforted me very maturely , i was like aisa bhi hota hai kya😭😭

Woh itin sundar , goes out almost everyday to new places and mai ek mastikhor balak😭
She said we'll figure out dw and that she was happy i was honest with her.

Ab suggest some very good places i can take her , cafe vghera he kyuki explore krne ka plan tha but due to excessive heat woh possible nahi hoga. And yeah she's a 10/10 guddie♥️🎀 will update further after the date happens.

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pata hai aaj kya hua. i'm 16 and my parents have always had this image of me that i'm some innocent kid who studies, stays out of trouble and probably says "yes mom" and "yes dad" all day 😭 meanwhile if they ever saw my friend group chats i think they'd need therapy. anyway today i was on a discord call with my friends and we were playing games and roasting each other like we always do. one of my friends did something unbelievably stupid and without even thinking i let out the most natural gaali of my life. like not even an angry one, just the kind that automatically comes out when you're talking to your friends.

what i didn't know was that my mom had walked into my room like 20 seconds earlier. i turned around and she was just standing there looking at me. not angry. not shouting. just staring. honestly i would've preferred getting yelled at because that disappointed look is a different level of pain. she literally goes "tum aisi language use karte ho?" and i immediately started acting like some lawyer defending a criminal case. "no mom it's not like that", "everyone says it", "i didn't mean it". somehow i kept making it worse. then obviously she told my dad because indian moms cannot physically keep information like this to themselves 😭

so during dinner my dad suddenly goes "your mom told me what happened today." bro my heart actually stopped. then he asks me if i regularly use that language with my friends and for some reason i decided honesty was the best policy and said yes. now both of them are looking at me like they've discovered a completely different person living in the house. the funniest part is they weren't even angry about the actual word. they were shocked because apparently for 16 years they genuinely thought i never abused. i'm still recovering from the realization that my parents had somehow built an entire fictional character in their heads and today i accidentally broke the illusion.

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I'm from Pune, and anyone who's searched for flats through Facebook groups here will understand what I'm talking about. I found this flat through one of those groups, but unfortunately, the flatmates turned out to be really bad.

In the beginning, they mostly kept to themselves, so I thought they'd become more comfortable and friendly with time. But instead, the situation has only gotten worse day by day.

One of them is so weird that he literally complains about me to the maid instead of talking to me directly. 🤣 Bro, if you don't know how to communicate with people, that's your problem. Whenever someone tries to have a conversation with them, they just shut their door and avoid any interaction.

I honestly feel stuck here. I want to move out and change the flat, but due to budget constraints, I can't do it right now.

The funniest part is that all of them work in IT and corporate jobs. They get all dressed up and professional for the office, but at home they live like they're surrounded by garbage. They don't even have basic hygiene or toilet-cleaning manners.

That's the reality of my flatmate situation right now. 😅

Lesson learned: never judge flatmates by their profession. 😅

Pata hai aaj kya hua? ME AND MY CRUSH MADE IT OFFICIAL. AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

Basically, he's a good friend of my best friend, and we both developed a HUGE crush on eachother. So my best friend played matchmaker and i found out that he liked me too. Then we met up to "hang out" last weekend but it was really a date like he picked me up on his bike, we went to an escape room, then to a picnic he set up at a very beautiful park like awwwwwwwww cutie pie

He dropped me off at my house after the day ended and i confessed. He got really awkward and asked me for time to think and i thought i fumbled BAD. I was super sad the next couple days and even yelled at my bsf for giving me false hope and shi. BUT THEN, i threw up and fainted in school (fuh this heatwave omg) AND HE CAME TO MY HOUSE WITH SOUP

We talked and stuff properly, he said sorry for leaving like that and he was just very overwhelmed but he liked me too. After like a day of dancing around this, we just made it official on text today. I'M SO HAPPYYYY

so situations kuch aisi hai ki my gf said ki uska physical attraction khatam ho chuka hai uska kehna ye hai ki she doesn't feel anything even if she saw those nfsw videos. and right after that she said ki muze koi aur ladki dhundhni padegi. and she'll stay until i found someone. I don't want to find anyone i love her more than my life.and In the heat of the moment she told me ki she ki last month use khudko unalive karne ke thoughts aa rahe the. and 1 month before that we actually met.

(Note : We are in a long distance relationship. aur ye distance muze pichle 6 months se feel ho raha tha and when i pushed her then she told me all of this) pata hai aaj kya hua

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So this is the last and hopefully the final part to this whole incident. Many of you have been asking for a part 3. For those who want to see previous posts, the link is given below.

[Part 1] (https://www.reddit.com/r/PataHaiAajKyaHua/s/V0JHCmruMZ)

[Part 2](https://www.reddit.com/r/PataHaiAajKyaHua/s/9MVkyjTzf7)

So Akhil's girlfriend has been calling and texting me continuously calling me a wh*re and cursing me out. I tried to reason with her and give my part of the story but she doesn't want to listen. She legit CALLED MY MOM and told her that I slept with Akhil. I don't even know where she got the number from but I blocked that psychopath. My mom surprisingly didn't believe her and told me that she knows Akhil is a nice guy and won't do anything like that.

As for Akhil, I talked to him and asked him to clarify it all and if he was in love with me why was he dating this girl and all. He told me that he used to talk to her and ask advice regarding the crush he was harbouring on me. He didn't mention to her that the said crush was me and this girl assumed that he was talking about her. After which she went on to confess and Akhil rejected her. She then started calling and texting him non stop about how he shouldn't have given her hopes and all and that she'll harm herself if he doesn't agree. I don't know how much of this is true but I've decided to believe him.

About the situation with Akhil, we're cool now. He suggested we try going on dates for a week to gauge if this will work and if it doesn't, he won't ever mention it again. I agreed. Let's see how it goes. (I might be going to Bangalore for my masters soon)

At last thank you for all the advices and care you guys have shown me. Love you. Bye.

My brother is 30yo and he is looking for arrange marriage matches on shadi com premium ..

He recently matched with a 27yo girl she is working in finance and earning like 36lpa ..and my brother is earning 40lpa

She is really well educated and my brother met her 8 times in 3 months before this they talked for 2 months

They find each other compatible, she is genuinely a kind person and down to earth and very good to talk to and i also met her once

Now the girl's mother is an advocate at high court, her dad is a senior director at railways ...but her mom and dad are separated....her mom later remarried a Muslim man

The girl have no relationship with her mother's husband and do not seem to like him at all...she is close to her mom and her biological dad....the girl is a practicing hindu, her mom and dad are also hindu

She clearly told my brother she have no relationship with her mom's husband

Now my brother was okay with this and 6 months they were talking and she told her mom about my brother ...her mom said we will decide after meeting...but if you like the guy it's fine

My brother told our parents.... they liked the girl after seeing the photo and her education...but immediately rejected her after knowing her background

Now my brother is confused what to do ...cause he seems to like her to an extent

My parents had no other reason to reject her tho

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She is so beautiful. I wish I had fixed myself earlier, then maybe everything would have been fine and she would still be with me. Now there’s nothing left except regret. I miss her, but at the same time I don’t even want to hear her voice. I want to see her, yet I also don’t want to see her. I want her back, but at the same time I don’t. I feel trapped in this weird loop. I hate her and I love her at the same time. I don’t even want to hate her, but after I left, she became friends with my enemy, and that really hurt. Anyway, I blocked her one month ago. I’m feeling bored now — if anyone wants to talk, my DMs are open.

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I am 24 years old, and earlier my hair fall wasn’t this bad. But after that girl left, it has increased a lot. My hair was already thin, and now it’s getting even worse. I don’t understand what to do. I’m falling deeper into depression and it feels like my life is over. What should I do? Can my hair grow back, or is a transplant my only option now?

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Kal raat mall gaya tha bas aise hi thoda ghoomne aur mind fresh karne. Honestly koi special plan nahi tha… bas headphones laga ke stores dekh raha tha aur timepass kar raha tha 😭 Food court ke paas khada tha tab maine ek ladki ko dekha jo apni friend ki pics click kar rahi thi but clearly unhe koi photo pasand nahi aa rahi thi 💀 Dono baar baar pose change kar rahe the aur fir khud hi photos dekh ke hasne lag ja rahe the.

Thodi der baad woh meri taraf aayi aur boli, “excuse me… ek pic click kar doge?” Maine casually phone liya aur photos click karne laga. Pehle to main normally click kar raha tha but fir pata nahi kyu main bhi extra effort dene laga 😭 Angle change karna, portrait mode, lighting adjust karna… pura unpaid photographer ban gaya tha.

Fir bhi madam ko almost har pic me koi na koi problem mil rahi thi 💀

“Wait hair weird lag rahe h.”

“Ek aur.”

“Yeh candid jaisa nahi lag raha.”

Aur honestly uska hasna dekh ke irritation ki jagah mujhe bhi hasi aa rahi thi 😭❤️

Finally ek photo usko pasand aayi aur woh screen dekh ke smile karne lagi. Fir meri taraf dekh ke boli,

“okay damn… tum kaafi ache photographer nikle.”

Ngl uss ek line ne unnecessary happiness de di 💀

Uske baad hum wahi side me khade hoke thodi random baatein karne lage… kaha se ho, often mall aate ho ya nahi, kaunsi coffee achi hoti h yaha and all. Conversation itni normal thi but weirdly comfortable lag rahi thi… jaise pehle se jante ho 😭

Fir uski friend ne usko tease karna start kar diya like “chal ab inse friendship bhi kar le” 😭 Aur woh bas awkwardly hasne lagi.

Jaate jaate usne phone pocket me rakha aur smile karke bola,

“thanks… next time bhi tum hi pics click karna.”

Aur pata nahi kyu but uske baad pura mall thoda zyada acha lagne laga ❤️😭

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"Pata Hai Aaj Kya Hua"

I(M) was walking from parking to office(10 min walking) with my Colleague(F).

10 meter ahead a girl(office crush) was also walking alone her hair was open.

my colleague said to me while walking: itni garmi me b log(to office crush) bal khulle rakhtey hai. (can sense jealousy)

I said I know her should I tell her to keep hair tied. she said agar himmat hai to bol do.

After almost week today me and my office crush was walking towards office.

was talking with her I said people are jealous of your long hair while u keep then open. she said i will take it as compliment.

And asked me should I tie or keep my hair open. (Mann mein laddoo phoota!)

I replied u look stunning with open hair keep them open she said thanks.

she said miltey hai bad me...me said take care. (reached at office)

what should be my next topic of talk to keep it interesting..?

don’t really know how to explain this properly, but I’ve been feeling weird about something.

My boyfriend and I have only been dating for around 9 months, but we’ve actually known each other since school. We were really close friends back in 7th–8th grade, and now we’re both in our early 20s.

So recently he randomly asked me if I had a DMAT account. Later he mentioned there was an empty biryani box near him and I asked if he had eaten anything. He said no, and then told me he basically had no money in his account.

I told him I could order food for him, and he said okay, maybe in the evening. But then I started thinking that if I’m already helping once, maybe I should just send him some money instead because it might help him for at least a few days. The thing is, I don’t really have a lot of money either. I just sent whatever little amount I had.

Now I feel confused and weird about the whole thing. I care about him a lot, obviously, but I also don’t know if I’m overthinking or if this is normal. I also didn’t want him to feel bad or go hungry.

I genuinely don’t know what to think about this situation......

He don't even ask his family for money..and he is independent but still struggling with his work...

I helped him because that's what I can do ...

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