r/PataHaiAajKyaHua

Pata hai aaj kya hua! So, a few days ago, I caught my husband checking out my old, messy sketches and drawings. I was really embarrassed because I never wanted to show them to anyone. My parents used to hate it (they even destroyed one of my sketchbooks once), so I was a bit upset that he saw my stuff.

But he said he found them accidentally, and that he really likes them and thinks they look cool. I thought he was just being nice so he wouldn't offend me. But today, he came to me wearing this tshirt lol! I was really surprised. And it looked a bit ugly to me. Though i found it cute, he genuinely liked it, I guess.. I'm happy..

Pata hai aaj kya hua....

This girl and I was friends then one day she proposed me and I said yes but I asked her to not talk with her one friend who was continuously proposing her but she said she can't do that because it would hurt him

and he is innocent I tried to make her understand but she was adamant so I said I can't talk to you and can't be your bf

but later she said she was joking and making me jealous and was testing me but it didn't seem to me that way

now she is trying to win me over. I am not feeling anything for her anymore I know what I feel but she is so adamant and tells things I become confused.

Pata hai aaj kya hua.

Lately, nothing feels good anymore. 😭 It feels like everything in my life is falling apart. I'm stuck in a deep sadness, and I can't remember the last time I truly felt happy. Every day feels the same, like I'm just surviving instead of actually living. I feel so lonely because I have no one to talk to, no one to support me, and no one to love. Seeing everyone else happy with someone makes me wonder why I've never experienced that. Sometimes it feels like life has lost its meaning, and everything seems pointless. I keep hoping things will get better, but right now, all I can feel is emptiness, loneliness, and the pain of wanting someone who truly cares about me.

These mumma-daughter pair were left in my care for a night. They loved this spot below my feet hehe. I have never handled cats before, but have had a dog most of my life. Was pretty challenging, but ho gya.

Momma cat decided to puke at 4:30 am. And baby cat had already puked at 1am ish. So yeah, was awake 5:30 am looking after these loves on my first day of periods 😭😭.

But it's okay, they are so adorable. Heheheh

Pata hai aaj kya hua.

Pata hai aaj kya hua
So, I was seeing this guy. We weren't officially in a relationship, but I really liked him. It was the first time in years that l'd genuinely liked someone (my first and only relationship was in 2022).
Then I found out that he had lied about still being in contact with his ex. They would talk every now and then. I even pulled a prank to confirm it, but it turned out the grass wasn't greener on the other side. That was a huge turn-off for me, especially since they had dated for two years. So, I cut all ties with him.
Now, before I met him, I had a crush on another guy at my gym. I've never spoken to him—he was just nice to look at. He stopped coming to the gym for about a month, but now he's back, and I find myself feeling excited to go to the gym again.
Am I guilty or a bad person for feeling this way?
Considering that I was seeing someone else just a month ago, and that only lasted about two weeks, I feel conflicted.

So, Pata hai aaj kya hua?

28 M here, i have been friends with her for a long time and i liked her, never confessed but ek din baato baato me mene usko bata diya i like you.

Nothing changed in between us.

After a year or more suddenly hamari baate badhi and she said she likes me too. This happened in Jan 2026.

Till Jan 2026 to May 2025 everything was good. We met and spent a good time together. After meeting me she got more sure of me.

I was like chalo life set hai, ghar pe bata diya, sab khush. I come from orthodox family and still no one said no. Everyone was happy for me that after 2022 finally I found someone.

Now here comes May 24th, we are on call and talking about random things. 2 hour jaisa call chala and then good night and all hua.

Suddenly she texted me, up? I said yes - bolo kya hua?

She said please don't over react, but I don't feel the same about you anymore.

I don't want to continue this 🫡.

Pairo niche se zameen nikal gai..

I just cannot explain what is going on in my mind.

Cut close to that today, random hi hello hua and she texted me this.

Guys i am so done, never been lucky with love. This was my last chance and now i am done.

TLDR: Gave love a chance after 2022 for the last time and ended up at a phase where she has now met someone new. Not gonna try again, giving up.

Pata hai aaj kya hua…
I’m 26F and my boyfriend (27M) and I were together for almost a year. This wasn’t a casual relationship—we had discussed marriage, our families knew about each other, and I genuinely believed he was my future. About a month ago, my best friend found his Hinge profile. He didn’t know she knew me, so they matched. He complimented her, spoke normally, never mentioned he had a girlfriend, and moved the conversation to Instagram. She stopped replying and told me everything with screenshots. When I confronted him, he admitted it was his account. He said he downloaded Hinge because he became overconfident, got influenced by a friend’s “side chick” story, wanted validation, and wanted to see if he “still had it.”
Since then, he has accepted full responsibility and has been begging for another chance for almost a month. He has cried, waited outside my building in heavy rain, apologised countless times, says he wants to marry me, and even his mother has asked me to forgive him because she believes people make mistakes. The thing is… I still love him. If I had stopped loving him, this would’ve been easy. But I don’t know how to trust him again. Even if he has genuinely changed, how do I know he won’t hide things better next time? When I wanted validation or attention, I asked him directly. I never looked outside the relationship. That’s why I’m struggling so much.
So if you were genuinely in my shoes—not judging from the outside, but if this was your relationship—would you give one final chance and see if actions rebuild trust over time, or would you walk away because trust like this can never truly come back

TL;DR: My boyfriend of one year secretly downloaded Hinge while we were in a serious relationship. I found out through my best friend, who matched with him. He admitted everything when confronted, has been genuinely remorseful ever since, both our families know about us and marriage was discussed, but I don’t know if I can ever trust him again.

Pata Hai Aaj Kya Hua, I saw her today for the first time in years, and I had to pull my car over because I couldn’t keep driving.

Edit 1: THERES NO WAY IT WENT VIRAL BRUH, I posted it and went to play basketball and I got back just now and see my phone blown up ahhhhh 😭😭😭 I'm dead, thanks yall. I'll read each and every comment and I'll also let y'all know what I do! Also everyone concerned about 2 or 3 words rather than the story 💀 I'll edit it for yall.

Edit 2: I read all of your comments 😭 thanks for everyone for taking time to read all of this and commenting, means a lot. Most of yall suggested that I reach out and see how it goes so yes imma do it when the post hits 1000 upvotes 😭😭😭😭 pls dont. I’ll let yall know if anything happens, hope for the best 🥀. PIG AND PIGLET ARE NICKNAMES GUYS RELAX.

I’m home in India for the summer. She lives about 200 meters from me, she always has. She was standing outside her building, waiting for a cab or a friend, looking exactly like I remembered. I parked on the side of the road and just looked at her for a while. Long enough to realize that if I stayed one more minute I’d get out, walk over, and say every single thing I’ve been carrying for six years. So I left before I could. She’s with someone now. I’m not trying to be that guy.

But I’ve been sitting with it all day, so I’m putting it somewhere.

We dated in 9th and 10th grade. About 15 months. We broke up at the start of 2020, over a few stupid fights that didn’t matter then and matter even less now. On paper it was nothing kids, first love, the whole cliche. Except she is the single reason my life looks the way it does.

Before her, I was just coasting. My dad built everything we have from basically nothing first-generation money, somewhere in the range of 50-100cr (not to flex), and I’m the first in my family to be properly educated. There was an easy road already paved for me: step into his construction and real estate business, stay comfortable for the rest of my life, never really try. I would have taken it without thinking twice. Comfortable and mediocre. That was the plan I didn’t even know I had.

Then this girl walked in. She had a South African accent, so she stood out the second she opened her mouth but that’s not what got me. It was that she was kind in a way I’d never actually seen in a person. She’d help literally anyone. Teachers loved her, guys and girls loved her, she was the light in every room. And for some reason she believed in me louder than I believed in myself.

She’s the one who told me I could do things when everyone else, including me, assumed I couldn’t. I remember we were talking about studying abroad once and I said something like, “Man, I could never do that leave everyone behind and build a whole life alone.” She just looked at me and said, “Why can’t you?”

That’s it. Three words.

I don’t think she has any idea those three words redirected my entire life. I’m in my final year of college in the US, about to start a career here. None of it exists without a 16 year old girl asking why I’d sold myself short. Without her, I’d be back home right now, running my dad’s business, comfortable and asleep.

And it wasn’t just that one moment it was everything, constantly, in a hundred small ways. She taught me to chase things I’d written off as impossible, and to keep going when everyone around me said I couldn’t. She taught me to live with actual purpose instead of just drifting through my days enjoying myself and taking nothing seriously.

She taught me to be gentle with people to be kind to everyone, even strangers, because you never know what someone’s quietly carrying inside. She taught me that being the best version of myself wasn’t arrogance, it was something to strive for every single day. Before her I was just a guy coasting through life. After her I couldn’t go back to being that person even if I tried. She packed the most important education of my life into 15 months, at an age when neither of us really understood what was happening and then it was over and she was gone.

Right before the end, on the 16th of February 2020, she sent me a text I’ve never deleted. She used to call me Piglet that was ours. She said I made her feel special, but I deserved someone who’d treat me better, that she didn’t even realize when she did things that hurt me. And then: *“If we’re meant to be together it’ll happen eventually. After we grow as people, if we meet again, we’ll see.”* Eight minutes later, one more line came through:

*“But don’t wait for me.”*

I think I’ve been waiting anyway. Six years, and some part of me never stopped.

I’ve dated a lot of people since. I’ve never connected with any of them the way I did with her. At some point in every relationship I realize I can’t give the person my whole self, and it feels unfair to them, so I pull back and it ends. Same thing, over and over. I have her birthday tattooed on my left hand as you can see in the picture. not because I haven’t moved on, but because I never want to forget who woke me up. She made me who I am, and she isn’t around to see any of it.

I never got closure, and I think that’s the whole thing. Part of me has always wanted one last conversation to say thank you, to say *you have no idea what you did for me*, to put it to rest. But she has her own life now, and showing up to unload six years of feelings onto her wouldn’t be closure. It’d just be me handing her my weight to carry.

So here’s the part I can’t make peace with. I have the life she told me I could have. I crossed an ocean, I built the thing she said I was capable of, I became the person she saw before I could see him. And she’s the one person who’ll never know she did it. I got everything except the one conversation where I get to turn around and say: *this was you. All of it was you.*

Maybe some people come into your life just to light a fire, and then they leave once it’s burning never staying long enough to feel the warmth of it. I hope, wherever she is, some of that heat reached her anyway. I hope she got every big dream she used to talk about. And if life ever puts us on the same road again, even for five minutes, I just want to say thank you before I let her go for good.

She was the closest anyone ever got to my heart. She always will be.

And I never even got to say goodbye properly just “don’t wait for me,” eight minutes after the truth.

I hope no one that knows me irl sees this post or else I’m cooked.

TLDR: Dated a girl for 15 months in 9th-10th grade, broke up in early 2020. She’s the entire reason I stopped coasting toward the easy life at home and went abroad “Why can’t you?” was all it took. Now I’m finishing college in NY, built the exact life she said I could, but she’ll never know she’s the reason. Saw her today for the first time in years, 200 meters from my house, and had to pull my car over. Never got closure.

Just a try...🥲🥲