u/paneerkapyasa

I'm 23 and have been in one relationship and one situationship before both were in school days. After that I was depressed for multiple reasons which made me isolated and I gained weight and got unhealthy so I never thought about dating. Due to my childhood and multiple reasons I now suffer from serious overthinking, bpd issues.

I am working on myself, already lost a lot of weight and am still getting into shape giving myself 1+ years. When I come across these subs I feel like I'm missing out and I'm getting pretty late , but the fact is I'm working on my mental health issues and my physique. Because of which i can't date anyone as I want to be the best version of myself before putting myself out there.

I just wanted to know if 25 is a good age to start dating or am I pretty late?? I'm a one woman guy and not at all looking for short term rls or hookups. I'm a date to marry kinda guy. Can I still find someone or am I just too late???

I'm 23 and have been in one relationship and one situationship before both were in school days. After that I was depressed for multiple reasons which made me isolated and I gained weight and got unhealthy so I never thought about dating. Due to my childhood and multiple reasons I now suffer from serious overthinking, bpd issues.

I am working on myself, already lost a lot of weight and am still getting into shape giving myself 1+ years. When I come across these subs I feel like I'm missing out and I'm getting pretty late , but the fact is I'm working on my mental health issues and my physique. Because of which i can't date anyone as I want to be the best version of myself before putting myself out there.

I just wanted to know if 25 is a good age to start dating or am I pretty late?? I'm a one woman guy and not at all looking for short term rls or hookups. I'm a date to marry kinda guy. Can I still find someone or am I just too late???

I've been using my new Pixel 10a for about 15 days, and today something strange happened.

The screen blinked twice, then the phone completely froze. The wallpaper glitched so that only the middle portion of it was visible, while the rest of the screen was unusable. The phone was totally unresponsive- i couldn't interact with anything and had to force restart it using the power button + volume up.

After rebooting, the phone started normally, but my wallpaper had disappeared/reset.

This is the first time it has happened, and the phone has been working fine since.

Has anyone experienced something similar on their Pixel? Does this sound like a one-off software crash, or could it indicate a hardware issue? Should I just monitor it, or consider contacting Google support if it happens again?

I've been using my new Pixel for about 15 days, and today something strange happened.

The screen blinked twice, then the phone completely froze. The wallpaper glitched so that only the middle portion of it was visible, while the rest of the screen was unusable. The phone was totally unresponsive—I couldn't interact with anything and had to force restart it using the power button + volume up.

After rebooting, the phone started normally, but my wallpaper had disappeared/reset.

This is the first time it has happened, and the phone has been working fine since.

Has anyone experienced something similar on their Pixel? Does this sound like a one-off software crash, or could it indicate a hardware issue? Should I just monitor it, or consider contacting Google support if it happens again?

I've been using my new Pixel 10a for about 15 days, and today something strange happened.

The screen blinked twice, then the phone completely froze. The wallpaper glitched so that only the middle portion of it was visible, while the rest of the screen was unusable. The phone was totally unresponsive—I couldn't interact with anything and had to force restart it using the power button + volume up.

After rebooting, the phone started normally, but my wallpaper had disappeared/reset.

This is the first time it has happened, and the phone has been working fine since.

Has anyone experienced something similar on their Pixel? Does this sound like a one-off software crash, or could it indicate a hardware issue? Should I just monitor it, or consider contacting Google support if it happens again?

I've been using my new Pixel 10a for about 15 days, and today something strange happened.

The screen blinked twice, then the phone completely froze. The wallpaper glitched so that only the middle portion of it was visible, while the rest of the screen was unusable. The phone was totally unresponsive - I couldn't interact with anything and had to force restart it using the power button + volume up.

After rebooting, the phone started normally, but my wallpaper had disappeared/reset.

This is the first time it has happened, and the phone has been working fine since.

Has anyone experienced something similar on their Pixel? Does this sound like a one-off software crash, or could it indicate a hardware issue? Should I just monitor it, or consider contacting Google support if it happens again?

It's clear now that my fp is just fed up of my antics, I keep hurting her every time, this time she crashed out I didn't have anything to say. I just said sorry and kept apologizing but my repeated behavior caused her anxiety to get triggered pretty badly. Now she is not replying to my texts, where i am asking for closure, she's just ignoring me and I can't take this. I can't focus on anything, it's like I just keep checking my phone all the time for her text. What should I do? I'm just so anxious

I have been talking to her for more than 2 months, it's completely online. She has been the best friend to me, herself dealing with a lot - coming out of an emotionally abusive relationship, going through medical conditions. We used to be very close, talking almost all day, other than when I used to work. We shared every small thing with each other.

Now, she is still in college, and her exams are approaching. So she started replying to my texts a bit late and I started feeling like she is losing interest in our friendship, even though she mentioned once twice that she is busy studying. But my brain needs reassurance, all day. I couldn't say this to her, as she had dismissed my BPD symptoms earlier when I told her and called it indiscipline.

Since now I was not getting enough attention from her, I thought she found better friends or a date. That made me so jealous, I started ghosting and pulling away. I didn't even think that she was recovering from this dynamic, that her ex used to torture her with. I did it deliberately, to make her realise my worth.

She confronted me, and I admitted it. She was furious, because of me she lost her sleep, her anxiety was triggered. I apologized, we couldn't talk for a few days, but she reached out, she is really considerate, she wanted to make sure I don't overthink. She is such a good person and I hurt her. That made me feel so guilty.

We had a huge fight and she said that I've been using her for emotional support, but it's not like that, we were both emotional support for each other so that didn't make sense. Slowly things we're back to normal.

But in just a few days, she started mentioning a friend, whom she had hurt and who was attached to her. Honestly, it made me jealous, and I just started my manipulative tactics again, and started raising old arguments again, this time she was done with me, as she thought now I'm deliberately trying to trigger her anxiety. I didn't even understand what to say

She asked me to behave like the 23 year old man I am. I was stunned, I didn't know what to say. I just kept apologizing... I don't wanna mention my BPD as she is already anxious, and don't wanna try to outplay that. If she realises it herself, better, otherwise I'll. Manage.

What should I do, she is now ignoring my apology texts, I don't know if she's gonna reply or not? Honestly I'm just thinking of letting go, but she's been the best to me, always understood me, and I've been nothing but terrible to her, I'm so guilty

No one will be there for me, 24x7. I need to deal with it alone. Everyone has their own life and they have to deal with it. They can't just be there for you throughout the day. Let them go, but then talk, ask how they are doing, don't expect everyone to check in on you daily, every hour, every minute.

You just broke the heart of a very close friend, with your antics, stop pestering people due to your problem. I feel so terrible, of what you did, she is already an anxious person, and you just triggered her. You don't deserve to live. You are such a terrible person. You've been told this many times before. You've hurt people before.

But you don't seem to realise how your behavior is affecting other people. Please, take a step back and focus on your work, rather than obsessing and over analysing what your close ones are doing. Stop stalking them, and checking where they are spending their time other than you. They don't owe you anything.

Stop overeating over every small thing, you're getting overweight now, you don't look good, you need to lose weight, hit the gym, you've got time, you just gotta focus on the right set of things.

JUST GET BETTER.. BE PRODUCTIVE... STOP OVERTHINKING EVERY SMALL THING...