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Do women even engage?

I know rule 1 & 2.
Idk man i just want to rant a little.
I have a decent profile i get matches in hinge but its more of a numbers game, if i send 100s of likes i may get a few matches, but its not like every 2nd like is a match.
Its almost as if every females personality is dogs, tattoes, travel and brunching.
A lot of them mention good conversation but cannot reply with more than 2 words.
Random ghosting and unmatching to you all know.
What makes a woman match/swipe? why dont they talk properly? What do they want?
This whole thing is so frustrating

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u/Traditional-Yam6496 — 5 hours ago
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Hinge match disappeared after a 3.5-hour call, trying to figure out who was unmatched

I downloaded Hinge again yesterday around 7:30 PM and matched with a person. We ended up talking on the phone from around 11:15 PM to 2:45 AM, and everything seemed completely normal, we exchanged ids on snap and insta and phone number too....When I woke up this morning, the match was gone.

The confusing part is that in my past/unmatched matches, I can see an initial with “Unmatched yesterday” next to it. I remember viewing this person’s profile around 1 AM, though, so I'm confused about whether that initial is actually them.

The thing is, I had unmatched "another person"  before midnight yesterday because they werent active. So now I can't tell whether the “Unmatched yesterday” initial is:

  1. The person I talked to from 11:15 PM–2:45 AM, who apparently disappeared sometime after 1 AM, or
  2. The other person I unmatched myself before midnight.

Does anyone know how Hinge's “Unmatched yesterday” timestamp works? Is it based on the actual date/time of the unmatch, or could it still say “yesterday” even if the match disappeared after midnight?

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u/UpbeatKnee9714 — 12 hours ago
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Bro came with his own market valuation.

Man really said he’s handsome, rich, gets 100 coffee date messages from girls and now I have to “show I’m worthy” 😭

u/ExistentialGremlin — 22 hours ago
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The game’s gone 🥀 Feel free to roast me

Context for the opener, she had a tattoo of sun-moon. Also, lol Idk why I asked her out so early into the conversation.

u/EntranceOld07 — 1 day ago
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We’ve been texting for the last 1.5 years and this is how he wants our first meet to be like. 🤷🏻‍♀️

We matched on Hinge last year. We hit it off, and started texting almost every day. I thought we’d meet after a month or two of texting, however, it’s been 1.5 years and we haven’t. Reason? Obviously him and his eccentricities.

He calls (both voice and video btw) me every week, sees me, texts me, sexts me, however, the moment I pitch about us physically meeting, an unusual inertia sets inside of him for some reason. He’s quite younger than I’m, so maybe he’s been just nervous? I also pitched the idea of us meeting at a public place btw, and he has not been okay with that either.

Now, he came forward with this solution - he, at my place, inside of my room and my body, while his friend waits for us to finish. How weird!

u/Venture_Capitalistt — 1 day ago
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Will this work?

Is it too lame or cringe or high iq for another person? Or am I just overthinking a lot while my like will get buried under loads of other likes and roses :((

u/Vantaa_Black — 21 hours ago
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Found an old chat with my now-wife ❤️

I found a few old chats from two years ago with a girl I matched with on Bumble. It’s funny because we matched 3 times before we finally met each other.

I fell in love on the first day. She took her time and fell in love on the second date. 😂 We fell so head over heels in love that we told our parents within a month of dating.

Long story short, we got MARRIED last month 🥰

I was one of those people who always thought I’d never find a partner on a dating app. Turns out, we’re one of those rare success stories. 😊

u/Disastrous-Hat-8075 — 1 day ago